ledchick
Well-known member
[color=#800000I am so torn today. Here is the story...
I have 3 kids as you all know. My 19 y/o son has a good job at Dollar General, he has been there for a year. He is 2 payments away from having his nice, yet older Camaro paid off and he NETS about $900 to $1000 a month. I have never asked him for a dime for rent or to pay towards any expenses here at home.
Recently, our bills have just been more than what we bring in...the electric company raised rates by 25% a few months back, the price of groceries justs keeps rising etc. So we are pretty financially strapped, spending almost every penny on bills, with almost no money left over after they are paid. It is quite frustrating, especially when I go into his room and he has left his cell charger plugged in , his fan on and lights left on after he leaves.
Well, I asked him for a mere $25.00 a week to help towards the things he does use. He really did not like that and commenced to tell me I am a bad mom and I should economize more ( I already pinch the beard off of Lincoln, clip coupons etc) and that he cannot afford that.
Well, last night he brought a friend home late and they made tons of noise kept me and my husband up playing his 3 new PS3 games and talking and was just soooo disrespectful. I told him this morning that he would either give me the $25.00 or he would move out. I am feeling so **** guilty...damnit! I know I shouldnt, but damnit I never thought I would be one of those parents that would shove their kid out of the house. But he is just seems to keep calling my bluff. He left and I am assuming he is moving out, we really did not establish a definite point on that, but he did not give me the money and I am not backing down.
Am I being fair? I gave him a full year of work to do whatever with his money before I requested any money from him. I am just so upset...damnit!
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I have 3 kids as you all know. My 19 y/o son has a good job at Dollar General, he has been there for a year. He is 2 payments away from having his nice, yet older Camaro paid off and he NETS about $900 to $1000 a month. I have never asked him for a dime for rent or to pay towards any expenses here at home.
Recently, our bills have just been more than what we bring in...the electric company raised rates by 25% a few months back, the price of groceries justs keeps rising etc. So we are pretty financially strapped, spending almost every penny on bills, with almost no money left over after they are paid. It is quite frustrating, especially when I go into his room and he has left his cell charger plugged in , his fan on and lights left on after he leaves.
Well, I asked him for a mere $25.00 a week to help towards the things he does use. He really did not like that and commenced to tell me I am a bad mom and I should economize more ( I already pinch the beard off of Lincoln, clip coupons etc) and that he cannot afford that.
Well, last night he brought a friend home late and they made tons of noise kept me and my husband up playing his 3 new PS3 games and talking and was just soooo disrespectful. I told him this morning that he would either give me the $25.00 or he would move out. I am feeling so **** guilty...damnit! I know I shouldnt, but damnit I never thought I would be one of those parents that would shove their kid out of the house. But he is just seems to keep calling my bluff. He left and I am assuming he is moving out, we really did not establish a definite point on that, but he did not give me the money and I am not backing down.
Am I being fair? I gave him a full year of work to do whatever with his money before I requested any money from him. I am just so upset...damnit!
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