hahahaaaa..I used to get totally shited face. My tongue tie issue was resolved..I just slurrrr my words.
You're still stuck in the competing and comparing mode...in practice, if you're worried about some other dude.
Tease the chicks man...
Pultonic relationships. That's the pro of having female as freinds. You'll simply be more at ease talking to the opposite sex.
Depending how close you are to your female freinds...you'll simply talk the them about personal matters..which will require
you to open up at a deeper level. You're tongue getting un twisted is a by-product of that.
and exposure. If you have been with women...hawt women. Then it's all down hill from there.lol
Go out talk to talk to a veriety of people...after a while you'll get use to making small talks or ice breakers.
You don't have to tell jokes or have a serious conversation...just go with the flow...let her talk.
Then make repore with her
You're came on too stronge.
You gatta spoon feed her. If a woman is interested in ya..her body lanuage talks more than words.
If she's undecided...then just play it cool. Like... let her catch you looking then make eye contacts with her.
Then take deep breathe, look up and say OMG...silently. hahahaaaaa or just smile at her.
This way she knows you think she's totally awesume and it's just between you and her.
You gatta give her time to process it for a couple of days or weeks. If she's not interested she'll let you know.
Just act like you're stuck up to her too..fresia it. She's just another human being. Let her know...you're the honeysuckle.
If she's interested or sometimes she might be going through the samething you're going through.
She's start giving hints with her body launage. Then just say hi to her when you catch her looking at ya..hahahaaa
If she starts talking...then just go with the flow and RELAX.
The more relax you are the more relax she'll be.
The less internal confilcts you have the less she'll feel tension or vibe.
Stop trying to impress her. Don't say stupid honeysuckle like "WOW...you're so beautiful"..hawt babes hear that all day long..it's retarded to them.
Then one day you might even notice..she'll make herself avaliable to you...like she'll just be hanging out
giving you changes to talk to her and approach her.
No crazy pick up likes...no stupid jokes. She'll bascailly talk to you about any subject matters.
You're hanging out...without formally hanging out. Then build on that.
it depends on the woman and situations...sometimes i'd go to lunch or dinner with chicks...other times I went to the libuary and studied
with them..other times they take me home with them.