neo651
Active member
I recently got a job in the city so with commute added I'm gone about 12 hours a day and my girlfriend is home alone all day. She's searching for a job too but the market is still terrible. She's very much an extrovert and being cooped up and alone is making her very depressed. We recently moved to this area so she has few friends, the few she has work during the day too, so they're unavailable. We only have one car and I have to take it to work so she can't drive anywhere. There's nothing in walking distance and even if there were it's winter so it's frigid and there's deep snow and no sidewalks either. And we're just barely scraping by so we can't afford to have so much as a goldfish right now. She's doing the best she can to manage her depression, keeping the place tidy, taking up hobbies, making friends online but none of it is really doing the trick. I want to help her but I feel like we've thought of/tried everything to either fix it or learn to live with it and we're just at the end of our rope.