What tracts or habits of yours do you think put people off?

[ladyforsaken]

My indecisiveness, perhaps.

 

[Skid Row 89]

I'm very melancholy and look it

 

[lonelyfairy]

Yeah, I'm too sensitive too. I take things way too seriously.... I should relax a bit. .___.

 

[peachmilk]

Having difficulty in speaking and expressing myself makes people feel awkward around me. I get frustrated and embarrassed with myself, so I tend to stay quiet which repels people more.

 

[Triple Bogey]

I keep coming onto this thread and wanting to write something.
I either want to put 'everything about me' or 'I have no idea'. Can't decide

 

[Gutted]

Not being serious enough sometimes when I should be
Being too serious when I don't need to be
Being stubborn
My interest in games

Just a few

 

[Tiina63]

I'm too quiet. In social situations, I tend to only talk if someone talks to me first. Have REAL trouble in starting conversations (even online). Only really show my sense of humour to people I know and feel comfortable with. Tend to express how I feel either too much, or not enough (and whichever I do is never the right one apparently). I can be negative, although I know that comes a lot from the loneliness and rejection. And, since I don't drink or use drugs, don't have a great interest in music, don't have friends or relationships to ***** or talk about, I guess most people just find me pretty boring ....

I can identify with almost all of this.

 

[silversurfer]

I stare at them like a creep.

 

[9006]

Probably already posted, but seeming desperate will probably put people off.

 

[iAmCodeMonkey]

I'm very melancholy and look it

Same here man.

 

[Skid Row 89]

I'm very melancholy and look it

Same here man.

Being pessimistic has wrecked a lot of friendships I had too