Sorry I guess this might sound like a rant but I want to know why. In our world it seems like no one is ever happy with their relationships. A lot of guys complain about being alone and many women complain about being in such awful relationships with jerks. I guess to me it seems that(sorry i say this a lot) many guys who are quite possibly better human beings than other guys are overlooked. Such things as being more considerate of a women's feelings and not treating them like crap. Guys who won't try and get into a girl's pants or anything like that.
There are guys out there who are non jerkish and have never been in a relationship.While the guys who are jerks all the time are in one relationship after another. Why does this neverending trend keep happening? The reason I think that such a cycle exists is like I said in another thread is that people don't want someone who is ugly with the qualities you want in a human being,they want more :/. They want that special someone who looks great and possesses those qualities you want in another human being.
I dont see such a thing ever changing so it seems like such a trend will continue perpetually. Sure there are guys that look great and are really awesome, kind people but they seem so few and far between. Since great looking people don't have to work as hard and be as nice to even be accepted or be in relationships. Where as I would think that at least some of the less attractive people grow up thinking more deeply about things or kind since they have never been accepted.
Will this ever change or are we all to focused on looks and it really seems like we are.Since most of the time I see when people talk about someone they always say how pretty or handsome they are. Or how they will go out with someone if they are not "hideous". But why are there so many guys who claim to be great guys who have never been in a relationship while there are so many women who complain about being in relationships with jerks. Will the 2 sides ever meet more or will we continue down the same road?
I just think that the lonliness is a result of these guys who are most likely ugly but maybe they are just socially awkward. I am one of these guys(no duh) but to me I truly think its caused by ugliness because no girl has ever been interested in me and girls and I've never gotten the same treatment such as my friends have gotten from girls. Such as girls flirting with them, laughing, or making eye contact and smiling. Sorry, just giving some examples. So will guys who have never been in a relationship that claim to be considerate of women, really are, but are also most likely ugly or socially awkward ever be accepted more than they have been over the years?
There are guys out there who are non jerkish and have never been in a relationship.While the guys who are jerks all the time are in one relationship after another. Why does this neverending trend keep happening? The reason I think that such a cycle exists is like I said in another thread is that people don't want someone who is ugly with the qualities you want in a human being,they want more :/. They want that special someone who looks great and possesses those qualities you want in another human being.
I dont see such a thing ever changing so it seems like such a trend will continue perpetually. Sure there are guys that look great and are really awesome, kind people but they seem so few and far between. Since great looking people don't have to work as hard and be as nice to even be accepted or be in relationships. Where as I would think that at least some of the less attractive people grow up thinking more deeply about things or kind since they have never been accepted.
Will this ever change or are we all to focused on looks and it really seems like we are.Since most of the time I see when people talk about someone they always say how pretty or handsome they are. Or how they will go out with someone if they are not "hideous". But why are there so many guys who claim to be great guys who have never been in a relationship while there are so many women who complain about being in relationships with jerks. Will the 2 sides ever meet more or will we continue down the same road?
I just think that the lonliness is a result of these guys who are most likely ugly but maybe they are just socially awkward. I am one of these guys(no duh) but to me I truly think its caused by ugliness because no girl has ever been interested in me and girls and I've never gotten the same treatment such as my friends have gotten from girls. Such as girls flirting with them, laughing, or making eye contact and smiling. Sorry, just giving some examples. So will guys who have never been in a relationship that claim to be considerate of women, really are, but are also most likely ugly or socially awkward ever be accepted more than they have been over the years?