Recent content by AJR

I could agree that it is possible that the traits I am attracted to are more rare than is prudent. That being said I am not interested into simply "dating". When I begin a relationship with a woman it is longevity that I want. I think that is what it comes down to for me. There is a "date" type...

Let us keep this in mind all, I recommended online only to brush up on some communication skills and the high rejection to prepare you for the picky reality. I would not recommend putting any real stock into them. The original purpose of my creation of this thread is ideas on meeting real women...

Lets calm down here folks, there is no reason to get nasty. Everyone, and I mean EVERYONE, has their own opinion. Just because you disagree doesn't mean you need to lash out, I am talkin to the both of ya! Let's just keep it casual, we are all in the same community!

Meds are a joke imo. I am not saying they don't have their uses and are not important, however, society today wants to solve all your problems with a pill. Ages have come and ground to dust and billions have lived and died without them and I personally would never, even in most most depressed...

This is to the OP and ANYONE in the same situation. I have been there and to a certain extent still am. You want love and acceptance from some one...anyone...well you are forgetting the most important person...YOU! Why the heck should anyone love you if you cannot love yourself? That is not...

I feel your pain all! On those sites I send out at least 10 to 15 messages to folks every week, some dont even visit my profile so I know they are not interested, it is the ones that take the time to see your profile then don't even respond that get me down sometimes. That is the reason I make...

The thing is that I love a woman to have a few extra pounds on her. Granted I love the petites too but they would have to be trim not starved so that is usually why I have leaned towards the catagory I am in...just a few extra pounds. Thus far my online dating is uneventfull aside from some...

Well as I said I am 27 and so I would say the lowest I would go is 21 bare min and highest is say 32. I personally wouldnt say that I am any more shallow than any other person the walks this Earth and I dont think I should have to settle for some of the women who do have interest in me, heck I...

Think on this if you want mate, when things happen in your life, good or bad, they are reflected in you. The way you talk the way you walk, some good advice has already been given and I see no reason to rehash what I clearly agree with. People can tell, whether they let on or not, when you are...

It is very rare that I agree with LC lol but it is true. You were friend zoned a long time ago and if this girl had the feelings for you that she says she does you would be dating by now. Sadly you said it yourself when she told you that you were one of her closest friends. Sounds like she has...

Alright so I started recently to use a few of the free dating sites to ready myself to enter the dating world on a real trek. Never before have I actually gone out and sought a female to form a relationship with and these sites have done a fine job in preparing me for rejection I may face in a...

Hiya Spider, glad you came out of your lurker "web" to post lolz! Down to buisness! As a 27 year old man I can tell you this with confidence. You dont know yourself, that is ok. You need to actually decide what it is you want before you can expect yourself to really pursue it! I am a shy dude...

Consider context and tone. It is pretty easy for the average human to become offended over nothing. I would say it is pretty easy to tell the difference between attention seeking behaviour and actual requests for help. Make a note wether any actual questions have been made or if they just sound...

I would like to agree with Maul, this world is empty. Sometimes it is very difficult not to be bitter. After years of not mattering it is easy to beat yourself up. Sad truth is that we are all to blame. For folks like you and I, it is because of our lack of prolonged interaction with the world...

I think all humans have the need to "fit" in. I would assume it is a leftover from our early days when you would need to be part of a herd for safety. I wouldnt worry about it all that much though, with perserverance everyone can find a group of folks with similar interests and thoughts. Join a...