Recent content by confusedandalone

I feel more scared about going to a new place nerarer my mum oddly enough! I know she's there for me and vice versa but because im so scared of the unknown and worried about losing old friends I feel like I should move back to where i've been living and hang about with the old gang (mostly...

Thanks. So the consensus is to move back to where i know away from mum and not go to uni? I know i have to go out and i would probably do that more if i was further away, but i wont have much money that way if i cant get a decent job. All I want is t feel like i can do things on my own but so...

Hi, i just wanted a bit of advice really. I've reached crisis point! Basically, I am an only child and I now live with my mum and step dad. Ever since i was 16 i have been in a relationship and made friends around these relationships - i was never very good at making friends on my own. im now...

The thought of moving for work terrifies me! has anyone else moved away from their families for work? how did you go about it?

I have a reallt hard time trusting myself. I have been in a relationship since i was old enough to have one, always put that first rather than constructing a life outside of it and cant imagine being able to go it alone. I am not sure i can go for a career or anything because im not very clever...

I dont think that it should matter to be honest, whether or not you have lots of friends. you can count yourself lucky if you have a couple of close friends that you can rely on and often people who appear to have lots have just got aquaintances or are good at pretending and putting on a show. i...

Thanks guys, it is so nice to have some human contact! It was lovely to look at the post today and find that people have replied! Gives you hope for the rest of humanity hey. I knew the minute i'd written it that it sounds like a sob story and that im being naieve in what i think, but you know...

Ok, i hope nobody minds me telling my story. I was with a guy for 3 years and worked with him so we had lots of joint friends. I made really good friends with his friends and from there made friends of my own. We have since split up and i have had to go back and live with my parents 5 hours...