Recent content by MellyVinelli

Hoping for a reply on a job application. Have to wait through the weekend to possibly get an answer on Monday. Gonna be a long two days. Do you game?

I have myfitnesspal on my phone. I use it primarily to log caloric intake and macros. It was especially useful during my keto diet that dropped me from 195lb to 185lb. You get to change your macro ratios as for this diet it was 5% carbs 65% fat and 30% protein. I have since transitioned back...

I've been on the receiving end of friendships like that. Yes you are right to be upset. But move on, this is not a friend worth getting upset over. However if its pure casual and you don't put any effort into it, you could still be acquaintances. I would not invest any effort into it though...

The flip side is you could have never experienced the freedom of the single life as I have been in a relationship since I was 15. Had another relationship on the go at college and then broke of the first one. Now I'm engaged to the second one. Still socially awkward because I never practiced...

I won't go into details. There was one who was significantly more senior than myself who came with a lot of experience. To put it bluntly one sacrificed in the looks department. So no, looks are not always important. This is an area where a lot of sexual deviants act out in ways not socially...

I've been one of those guys that try to treat them with dignity and respect but often received a wierd look. I haven't done anything like that for a while now as it is a compulsive behavior I am recovering from. I will tell you that some men who pay for sex don't necessarily pay for looks...

I second this. I think when you try too hard it ends up backfiring. Although I am in a relationship, I struck up a conversation with a girl at the gym. I wasn't looking for anything, but she was watching the same NHL playoff game I was watching and she was literally screaming while she was on...

Well certainly I feel less anxiety and in a better mental state because it is simply a positive feedback loop. This is by no means a PUA thing. At least from my point of view. I'm in a committed monogamous relationship. I want to make a positive influence on things. One confounding factor...

I won't speak for any woman because I'm a guy. But something I noticed ever since I changed my lifestyle to be more active. I didn't decide to do this because to be quite honest, I have no idea what women want, including my gf. All my life I've been super careful with what I say and how I say...

^you're onto something here. You don't know whether ur attracted to a girl because you want a relationship or you just want a friend with benefits. That is why the brain needs to be 'fixed' so to speak so you can make a clear choice. Everyone naturally needs some level of physical attraction...

I second this! I do prefer the secks with girlfriend but as mentioned before, box is closed until marriage and no date set...

Proven is a very strong word. I would like to argue that it isn't proven because there has not been much empirical study to challenge it. Ok. Lets step away from the pr0nz and just focus on sex addiction then. I learned of a guy who doesn't really go for videos or M at all. He is married...

Hey you are the one worried about your looks. If you go judging girls with this "I've got standards" and rank them all /10, good luck not having that honeysuckle thrown right back at your face. If you really are called 'ugly', you just got a taste of your own medicine.

Check out yourbrainonporn.com Under the videos tabs there is a 6 part video that goes into the science and what part of your brain is being affected. Just watching that has given me the motivation to quit. And by quitting I mean no pornography whatsoever. No professional porn videos, no...

I think the problem is mainly between the ears. For as long as I remember, I've had access to the Internet and have had access to all sorts of pr0nz. Most certainly it started before I had my first girlfriend and I would say it was my first introduction to female anatomy and thus "sex Ed." I...