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    Another Lonely Friday Evening

    Hoping for a reply on a job application. Have to wait through the weekend to possibly get an answer on Monday. Gonna be a long two days. Do you game?
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    Suggestion for Health and Fitness

    I have myfitnesspal on my phone. I use it primarily to log caloric intake and macros. It was especially useful during my keto diet that dropped me from 195lb to 185lb. You get to change your macro ratios as for this diet it was 5% carbs 65% fat and 30% protein. I have since transitioned back...
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    Called out a flakey friend...now I feel like I made a mistake

    I've been on the receiving end of friendships like that. Yes you are right to be upset. But move on, this is not a friend worth getting upset over. However if its pure casual and you don't put any effort into it, you could still be acquaintances. I would not invest any effort into it though...
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    Is starting later an advantage or disadvantage?

    The flip side is you could have never experienced the freedom of the single life as I have been in a relationship since I was 15. Had another relationship on the go at college and then broke of the first one. Now I'm engaged to the second one. Still socially awkward because I never practiced...
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    lack of men attention leading to me wanting to...............

    I won't go into details. There was one who was significantly more senior than myself who came with a lot of experience. To put it bluntly one sacrificed in the looks department. So no, looks are not always important. This is an area where a lot of sexual deviants act out in ways not socially...
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    lack of men attention leading to me wanting to...............

    I've been one of those guys that try to treat them with dignity and respect but often received a wierd look. I haven't done anything like that for a while now as it is a compulsive behavior I am recovering from. I will tell you that some men who pay for sex don't necessarily pay for looks...
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    What to say to a girl you like the look of

    I second this. I think when you try too hard it ends up backfiring. Although I am in a relationship, I struck up a conversation with a girl at the gym. I wasn't looking for anything, but she was watching the same NHL playoff game I was watching and she was literally screaming while she was on...
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    Do women like "manly" men?

    Well certainly I feel less anxiety and in a better mental state because it is simply a positive feedback loop. This is by no means a PUA thing. At least from my point of view. I'm in a committed monogamous relationship. I want to make a positive influence on things. One confounding factor...
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    Do women like "manly" men?

    I won't speak for any woman because I'm a guy. But something I noticed ever since I changed my lifestyle to be more active. I didn't decide to do this because to be quite honest, I have no idea what women want, including my gf. All my life I've been super careful with what I say and how I say...
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    Issue with my sex desirability

    ^you're onto something here. You don't know whether ur attracted to a girl because you want a relationship or you just want a friend with benefits. That is why the brain needs to be 'fixed' so to speak so you can make a clear choice. Everyone naturally needs some level of physical attraction...
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    Issue with my sex desirability

    I second this! I do prefer the secks with girlfriend but as mentioned before, box is closed until marriage and no date set...
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    Issue with my sex desirability

    Proven is a very strong word. I would like to argue that it isn't proven because there has not been much empirical study to challenge it. Ok. Lets step away from the pr0nz and just focus on sex addiction then. I learned of a guy who doesn't really go for videos or M at all. He is married...
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    Question... might be pathetic

    Hey you are the one worried about your looks. If you go judging girls with this "I've got standards" and rank them all /10, good luck not having that honeysuckle thrown right back at your face. If you really are called 'ugly', you just got a taste of your own medicine.
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    Issue with my sex desirability

    Check out yourbrainonporn.com Under the videos tabs there is a 6 part video that goes into the science and what part of your brain is being affected. Just watching that has given me the motivation to quit. And by quitting I mean no pornography whatsoever. No professional porn videos, no...
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    Issue with my sex desirability

    I think the problem is mainly between the ears. For as long as I remember, I've had access to the Internet and have had access to all sorts of pr0nz. Most certainly it started before I had my first girlfriend and I would say it was my first introduction to female anatomy and thus "sex Ed." I...
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    Issue with my sex desirability

    ^This is actually quite huge. Only problem is that I'm currently in one of those relationships where the "real life" lady pretty much shut the door to the fun box thus leading to a great deal of frustration. In fact, just typing this is giving me some lower abdominal pain. If you refrain from...
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    An easy mark?

    Hmm. My mom can pull that off to my grandad and to my dad. Two sources and from each a lot more. She's a seasoned veteran. "Just beginning" is absolutely correct. If I ever had daughters my mother would be the first to teach her everything she knows at a very young age and I'd be a huge...
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    Do women like "manly" men?

    I'm not a prototypical alpha "manly" male. I am more comfortable getting advice on what to do or whatever for my girlfriend as she is very much a alpha female type. The problem is that I think that as "nice" as I am there is that "take charge" persona she wants and doesn't want the...
  19. M

    pen pal

    The straight white male is losing on pen pals too lol. *Edit: OP I did read your post. Not trying to be disrespectful. I simply don't fit your description. Good luck!!
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    Recent convo on "friend-zoning"

    From reading the OP, I believe the concerns are behaviors that can be changed. It's not as if she couldn't stand his nose or his webbed feet. Therefore I think it is definitely better to be honest. However, i believe the ball is on his side of the court to take the cues she is already telling...
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