Recent content by Pomato

Yeah so I didn't read all the responses to the last post I made, but after glancing at it a lot of it seems to be the kind of thing I was talking about - people telling me I'm 20 and to move on, as if it's my fault for dwelling on the past and as if it's merely will power that will make me stop...

All these stories are so similar. This stuff seems to happen to us at a young age and then go on affecting us for years afterwards. Interesting. And actually it's one of the reasons why I absolutely hate some people's advice to deal with low self-esteem or loneliness. They usually try to put the...

So... You guys know that little weird image of distorted letters and numbers you need to type into a box before you register for forums to "prove you're human"? I can't recall if there was one at this site...

In women's bathroom stalls in Japan there is a button you press that plays noises or makes a flushing sound because Japanese women tend to be very self-conscious about being known or heard to urinate and defecate.

I'm 20 now but I guess the worst experience with loneliness I've ever had was when I was 14-15 in 9th and 10th grade. For some reason I was so shy and scared of all the other kids that that I ended up hiding in either a bathroom stall or at the individual desks at the school library every lunch...

Just do it in small steps. Why not try gathering up the courage to call one guy? Not even because you really think there's a super good chance he'll want to hang out, but just to prove to yourself that you can do it. I mean you have to start somewhere. You're obviously fearing rejection, but...

Thanks for the replies everyone. The insight from different people really helps and a lot of it echoes what I've been thinking myself And yeah I was pretty mad when I posted this thread, but I'm not that mad anymore anymore. What still gets me though is how I somehow always get "blamed" (even...

Then how do you Do that which makes you feel comfortable around somebody? Step 1: Meet someone. Step 2: ??? Step 3: Feel comfortable! Yay fun happy kisses! And I know the answer. It's to stop being a self-hating loser, isn't it?

I don't want to prove honeysuckle to anyone. So what's it all about then? "Chemistry?" Oh great, another one of those words I'm not quite sure I understand but am basically certain is a rough translation for "you're too much of a pussy to even flirt with me."

Yep thanks for that. That's the kind of comment that makes me feel even worse :) :) OF COURSE it's not hard. EVERYONE can do it. TONS of guys my age have girlfriends. And they're not necessarily the smartest or wittiest guys either. Fantastic!

Okay, so after talking to people on here and mulling the issue over a bit, I've come to the conclusion that impressing girls and being the kind of guy who they would like has a lot to do with your personality traits, how you act in situations, and the general air you give off. So basically a lot...

I would say it's best to move at the start of the year. In high school, kids are LITERALLY LOOKING FOR POTENTIAL FRIENDS at the start of any given year. Obviously it might not seem like that to you (god knows it didn't to me when I was in high school), but now that I look back I can recall tons...

Well, lovelace, might I say you seem perfectly healthy and happy in your state of mind. Personally, I hate my birthday. For the same reason as the 15 year old kid who posted above (Ak5). Except I'm 20! And those future predictions are still going to end being true for my 3rd decade of life...

Wow, I feel really bad for you. I'd really like to know more about your condition though. Care to explain exactly what/how it makes you "not able to function normally" or remember things? You sound quite articulate from that post, so I'm assuming it's not conventionally what people consider as...

I know this is a problem for you, but honestly this just sounds like a lot of fun to me. Being constantly horny must make wanking great for you LOL. And I'm saying that because I think the path from going to being over-horny to being a sex addict isn't the slippery slope that you think. Sex...