Recent content by Rayboy

I moved to a new location 3 years ago and was trying to find a church. I went to many different ones, but I had one problem. I am a single man in my 30s, and I felt so isolated seeing all the married couples my age there with children. I want to do good things and help my community, but feel...

You're here...That's a good sign. If suicide is on your mind, think twice. There has to be some one that it would hurt. Suicide is so selfish, I know. I had a sister that did it. I also thought about it myself before. You cannot hurt others that care about you that way. Tuff it out, and believe...

I have to say, be honest with people. A pic of you @11 on FB is all you have? Put a recent pic up. Nothing wrong with having past pics and memories from the past on there, but I think everyone should have a recent pic

You never know what the next day will bring. If it is as bad as you say, it can't get any worse. Hang in there, things can only get better.

I was on an anti-depressant about 6 years ago, I believe it was zoloft. Warning, it made me gain about 20 pounds! So if you have self image problems they may make it worse in the long run..........

Echo the above comments. It's nice to know there are people around that care, and are willing to help. Thumbs up to this forum :)

LOL, I am there the older people camp, I just think there is an life experience difference. Think about it. Tattoos are hip now. When I was young they were only for military people and outlaws. Now a tattoo is hip.

I am new here, and I was looking for a way to contact the mods for a suggestion. The reason I am asking is because I think there should threads dedicated to age groups. Don't you think a 20 year old would have a different perspective than a 40 year old? Sorry if I missed something.

Thanks for the hospitality.

When I look at myself physically I see all the negative things. I am my worst critic. I'm sure it's not as bad as I perceive according to feedback, but I still cannot please my own standards. That being said, I have high regards about myself internally. I just wish I were outgoing enough so...

I never knew it was funny. I think it should rank right up there near murder. No one should ever be subjected to a forcible act against their will. Anyone that has such a tenacity should be lock up away from society imo.

Same here. Hopefully new friends can be made :)

Guitar, because I used to love writing lyrics. I had the tune in my head, but I just did not have the musical talent to make it into music.