Every weekend I would call this girl and even though she didn't say much and was busy doing her homework I would stay on the phone for an hour just to listen to her breathe.
I have to put forth more effort into the conversation when talking to shy girls. It's difficult for me to tell if she's bored or just shy from the lack of response.
I wouldn't recommend making friends in that setting. You will either encounter guys who are trying to pick up or people who are already hanging out in their own group and are not really interested in talking to strangers. You might get disappointed and end up trying to drink your sorrows away.
You can start by acting more confident and pretend like you're enjoying life.
Try it and maybe eventually people will be drawn to you because being around you will make them feel naturally better about themselves.
Perhaps you reminded her too much of the painful past that she wants to be forgotten and that's why she had to let you go. But I believe you were also the best part of her life during that time.
Do you have low confidence? Some guys say you're pretty but do you believe them? I'm not questioning the fact I'm only asking what you think because it's ultimately what you think that matters. You're not confident around men and that would explain why you pushed that guy away because maybe deep...
Maybe she is seeing someone else. Maybe she's encouraging you to move on because it will lessen her own guilt and make what she's doing less like an act of betrayal.
If you are baffled by the way you two are interacting now it's most likely because she does not want to raise your hopes in the...
You're strong because even though you're dealing with all those issues you haven't stopped striving to improve yourself. You might not believe it but you've also accomplished alot. Try not to be too hard on yourself. You're a good person.
Yeah, I know what you're talking about.
Although I don't think I would wanna remember what "killed" me. Would probably cause me more grief.
I tried that once. Ended up hating myself for it because it made me feel like l had to use a crutch to solve my problems. Might be different for you.
I know how you feel. Went to the doctor years ago for a full body check up. The doctor thought my request was strange so he asked me if I've been having sexual intercourse. Suspecting I was there to check for STD. I smiled and said no but I was sad on the inside because at that point I was still...