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    Hi, I'm Ahmed

    Hi Ahmed, nice to meet you :-)
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    Hello from me

    Hi, you sound a lot like me. I'm also socially awkward. If I know a social situation is coming up I start feeling anxious days beforehand. It has been great to find this forum where I don't feel like I'm the only one who feels this way 🙂
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    Chat room!

    Hi I'd like to join please 🙂
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    Do you feel like a loser?

    No, but sometimes feel like a freak. I'm not what society would call 'normal' for my age and gender, I am not good in social situations and when some people know my history they keep me at arms length. But it's their problem and I am who I am. They can go on living in their bubble in ignorance...
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    Hello everyone

    I'd say surfing is definitely an art form. I live near the coast, love the beach :-) Thank you 🙂
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    40+ Friends?

    Hi there. Great minds think alike. I replied on your thread too. Nice to meet you also 🙂
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    Hi everyone

    Hi, I'm 43 from Australia. Lots of people here around our age. I'm fairly new, still finding my way around. Feel free to message me if you want .
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    Can't stop worrying about what family thinks

    It took a lot of courage to do that. You needed to get it off your chest to be able to move on. Sounds like you have good things to look forward to so concentrate on creating a bright future for yourself and leave the past in the past where it belongs.
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    Changing your inner voice

    Hi, I think you can but it's damned hard. I was in a relationship where I was told for years that I was stupid, worthless, lazy etc etc and after a while it's like being brainwashed. You really believe it's true. But more than that in your mind it's an irrefutable fact and no matter how many...
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    Can't seem to make and retain friends.

    I agree with Richard. Friendship should be natural and fluid. A friend likes and accepts someone for who they are, not what they have/don't have, or what benefits can be gained from being around them. If they only want to self benefit you're better off without them. Don't give up, there are nice...
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    40+ Friends?

    Hi, nice to meet you too. I've sent you a PM 🙂
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    40+ Friends?

    Hi Richard, thanks for replying. Bring on the thunder 😎 Hi, great to hear from you! I will message you 🙂
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    Would like to meet new friends

    Hi, I'm from Australia
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    40+ Friends?

    Hi, would love to make some new friends. I'm 43, Australian.... feeling a little  lonely (obviously, or I wouldn't be here 🙂). Male or female, any location. Feel free to send me a message and say hi.
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    Hello everyone

    Hi, I'm a 43 yo Australian female. It sounds strange but I've only recently realised I've been experiencing loneliness even though it's been with me for a long time. I am surrounded by people in my everyday life, but it's as if there's an invisible barrier between them and me. I was in an...
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