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I wasn't really expecting any but I'm most grateful that you did take time to write that :) It feels a bit better now, I still haven't recovered fully but hopefully I will be able to get back on track now again. There is something to what you are saying about them coming at a stressful time. It...

First of all, once again, thank you for your supportive comments! It really means something to me :) Right now I really feel like this isn't heading the way I was hoping it would. Like, there are many ups and downs for me, more than usually. Yesterday I felt really good. Spent more time than...

Thanks for your support, it means a lot! Alright time for my first report then. Saturday I still had a family member visiting and really had to put in a lot of time on studying too so I didnt really do anything. Today however I feel like I'm off to a good start! For the first time in ages I was...

Besides from being exceptionally large/small, I think it does matter to some extent. But from the little interaction I had with girls on this subject, I take it that it's mostly about preferences, much like some guys likes big boobs and others prefers small ones but they wouldn't really care...

Personally coffee and nicotine just adds to the stress so I can't relate to that. But yeah, I think coffee is harmless enough (given that you don't drink very big amounts of it) and if it helps you.. great :D Alcohol is another story but I think you know that already. I used to drink a lot cause...

Hey man thanks for answering! :) Actually they aren't stupid, well the cycling one may be a bit hard as there is tons of snow, really slippery and I never learned to cycle during winters without falling.:D Basically the whole point is just that, to do things differently. They can be small or...

Hello there. I have decided that the next month (or rather 30 days as I'm starting this weekend) will be very different. In fact, they will be as different as night and day. For those that do not know me I am male, 21 and literally a basket case. Don't get me wrong, I have my good sides but...

I'd say that if you know what you are doing, they are pretty much redundant. Usually they just delete temporary files, may do some registry tweaks/settings and defrag your harddrive. These are things that aren't too difficult to do manually. Anyone can do some simple tweaks if they just google a...

I don't neccessarily think it's a good idea to "practice" this art of loneliness. I think for a lot of people, it can simply make things worse. At the same time I really get you. I have also been let down by people many times and it's very hard to live on and be happy if you feel so god ****...

I don't really know if I can be of any help here on why they make that assumption. It does happen that I think for myself sometimes if someone might be gay or bi - usually if they dress or act in a certain way. But it is in no way me being judgemental. Just good old curiosity I guess. I would...

I just came to think of something now during the holidays and that is how almost no one has ever done anything special for me. While I had friends and short romances in the past, I've always felt like... I'm just another person in the crowd. Like that no matter how close I've felt to people, I...

Seems like a very nice idea. I might be up for this in the future as I have a huge problem with talking in front of people but am pretty comfortable with phone and skype conversations (even in groups) - as it's my appearance causing the distress, not being seen takes away a lot of it. I guess...

I tend to do that at times so you are probably right. However, this isn't something that's always on my mind or anything like that - I mean I do see the difficulties and I try to think that just time will tell and meanwhile live on as usual. It's just that her behaviour is confusing me and I...

I think maybe my post was a bit open to misinterpretation. I never pushed her away. I was simply going slow in the beginning, trying to make sense of all of this and not rush into anything. This didn't put her off at the time and after a while we got to a point where we both felt like we really...

Hey. I'm just throwing this out here cause I got very few people IRL to discuss it with (in fact only one person) and I need some perspectives on it from other people. It's kinda long to read but yeah, thanks if you pull through:P So, nearly one year ago I got in touch with this girl online...