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I'm holding out for just 2 more years. If the right woman hasn't picked up my brain waves and homed in on me by the time I turn 50, I'll just say the hell with it and buy one of those life-size silicone love dolls. I'm asexual, so she ought to last until I'm 80 at least.

Went to another speed dating event on 1-14. This one was a freebie because I didn't get picked last time. Anyhow, the more I go to singles events without getting picked, the more I learn and the more experience I gain... but I keep coming back to the same conclusion: women need to stop being...

I'm starting to think it would be a lot easier for more people to get into good relationships if only someone could give them a space where shaming behavior is not allowed... About a month ago, I went to a speed dating event, expecting to be turned down by all the women... but lo and behold...

One perk about being openly asexual is that occasionally you get contacted with an offer to be in a documentary project being filmed by some student or other. That's what happened to me yesterday... out of the blue, some film student at a local university e-mails me with an offer to be...

I tried out a new meetup group on Sunday the 6th (this one is for 40+ yo singles). I didn't meet anyone there I'd want to date, but at least 3 of the women were flirting with me, one of them very overtly. Even I couldn't miss the cues this time. Needless to say, I'm not quitting that group...

I celebrated the 1st day of summer by making good on my promise to start a meetup group aimed primarily at asexuals, celibates, virgins, and other types who've been shamed by the Propaganda Machine. I did so partly for myself---I'm very choosy and I know what I'm looking for in a woman---but...

I googled the term "Pygmalion complex", assuming (wrongly) that I'd get a lot of psych pages... but the only thing I pulled up was an entry on urbandictionary.com. I don't try to hide the fact that I'm picky about which traits I find attractive in a woman, and which traits turn me off... I've...

The Boogeyman has the magical ability to look completely different to everyone. When I was little, I imagined him as your average bald-headed 6' Caucasian man, except he was sooty black, and a nudist... the irises of his eyes were gold like a cat's. He also had a perpetually runny nose, because...

I'm trying to take the bad with whatever good comes my way... but lately I've been feeling that it's time to break the routine. My problem has been... laziness. I'm sick of my daytime job (and have been for years), but last night I filled out an online job application, I know it will definitely...

Some of the posts I've been reading on the singles & dating boards over the last year or so give me the impression that the OLDSs are going despo because so many of their suckers---I mean, members---have been steadily defecting to join meetup groups instead. I suspect it's gone beyong...

One of the reasons why I enjoy lurking on the singles & dating boards is the atrocious spelling and grammar I find on them. These are not incomprehensible foreigners... more like people who never got past 3rd grade. I can't help but form a mental image of those people talking like the Cookie...

Ok, so I'm a 46-yo man who bummed around for 11 years of my life, then moved in to take care of my elderly mother when she was dying of cancer... next thing you know, she up and dies of blood poisoning in '07, leaving me with a house that was paid off in 1950. Whoop dee doo. So then I bummed...