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3 years isn't anything... try nothing in your adult life. No guys asking me out in person ever. Online was just 20-year-olds wanting hookups or 70-year-olds wanting who knows what

If this works so well, why didn't I find someone in my 20s when I didn't give a rat's behind if I had a boyfriend or ever got married?

<3 Tiina63 This is what I tell people too. It's a normal human thing to desire.

The area where I'm looking now has more and larger libraries than where I live now. When I was in library school they painted a rosy picture of the job market with all of the baby boomers retiring. What actually happened was libraries didn't fill the retiring person?s position. It's happened...

I work in the library field. That's what I've been focusing on and in another state because there aren't jobs where I live now I agree. It never just happened for me back then either. I've been called desperate more times than I care to count because I'm open about wanting to find someone...

So you're of the thinking that a relationship will just fall into my lap? There was a point in my life when I didn't look for anyone at all and it never happened either. I don't buy the it will happen when you don't look bs

I was hoping a change in location would help find people and activities I like but it's a Catch 22. Can't move until I get a job there, can't get a job there because I'm not local. To top it off, I'm lossing local jobs to out of state people. :( I'm just ready to call it quits and just be...

I'm having a bad time of things right and nothing ever changes or gets better. Right now on top of actively seeking a romantic relationship, I'm looking for a new job. I'm employed but in an underpaying job with no chance of advancement. Today I got yet another email about a job I interviewed...

I wish I could help you because I understand that feeling oh too well :( I'm much older than you and have never had any male approach me for my phone number or a date or anything. Online, I send messages to guys and never hear back. I live everyday with that fear of being alone forever, so I...

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I've always had a thing for the 49ers coach, Jim Harbaugh. Ok, you probably didn't need to know that. lol Welcome.

I understand this oh too well. :'(

Can't say it's very easy for me (female) to meet people. I get out, joined hobby clubs, volunteer, travel no guys ever approach me at anytime. I talk with people when I'm out but most of the time the man has a ring or says my girlfriend... Just went to a zombiewalk on Saturday the guys there...

I hear about all of these women who get flooded with men sending them messages on the dating sites, but I rarely get anything. My firends tell me I'm attractive but the men online don't agree.

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Welcome. I haven't been on here long but it's an enjoyable experience so far. I hope you'll feel the same :)

Thanks. :) I looked into starting a singles group but it was $20 a month for a meetup.com page. I couldn't justify that, especially if no one joined up.

That's been my experience as well. The holy rollers scare me and those guys who write in their profiles that Jesus is the most important person in their life or something about the bible being the only book they read troubles me. But that's just my 2 cents.

I'm not much help as I'm trying to figure out where a lady can go to meet a nice gentleman. Hopefully some others can give tips, which I might use too. Welcome too :)