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James, I gotta tell ya.... In the realm of us Loners, you are in deed the most seemingly unfortunate prize. I say that not to be complimentary. We all feel as though we are the most loneliest person in the world from time to time and in some cases all the time. Your depth of your state of...

Very good advice. Its painful to constantly keep giving people the benefit of the doubt. It sucks. The bottom line of the matter is, as much as we would like to issue blanket judgement for all in this type of situation. We have to at least give people some time to reply, and give people the...

What I find interesting is, as long as you are sociable in all the "accepted" ways.... your fine! Seems like these accepted ways vary from social circle to social circle. Veruca said it best when some her friends began drifting from her due to her more positive lifestyle choices. Peaches was...

I agree with all of the above. If only people were willing to be more straight forward with their feelings, Many of the unpleasant experiences we have in life would be unnecessary. Sadly, it seems that social circles prefers indifference and are okay with lies.

Welcome to the forum, I hope you find people here that you can relate too. There are many nice people here willing to talk and be of assistance. By the way, Ice Coffee makes everything better.... at least to me! :P Peace!

I understand you are frustrated, and you know what... so am I. There is a difference from being frustrated and over coming your frustration versus wallowing in defeat and ending yourself. You say being a loner is not by your choice it is "what you've become!" I disagree because you are the...

Hi LonesomeDay, and welcome aboard! :)

Do both. If they don't resonate to who you are, move on. They certainly will with you. You can never be too pushy, you are only staying true to yourself. You always be honest when being asked direct questions, its one thing to withhold something that wasn't inquired but something else...

lilE, Nothingness.... interesting title for a post. Believe me when I tell you, the nothingness or emptiness of the greater realities will soon enough catch up to us! Until then.... Live!.... Let Live. Be happy as much as possible at any costs! Life is an experience, of both the good and the...

I completely agree with "stock_error" I wouldn't worry about pestering anyone ever! If its a family member or loved one... it isn't pestering its you being you! :) The only reason why things may be construed as pestering... they just don't know or understand you that's all. Especially in a...

Xpendable, Sounds almost like the story of my life! I am willing to be adaptable to a certain small respect but not by a whole lot. People are not going to change! Why the hell should I or anyone else for that matter? I have read all of the comments leading up until right now, I am actually...

Hey RT, I know how you feel. The desire for friends and proper relationships is very important to many of us here on the forums. In a way, we can have all of those things..... here, now and tonight if we are willing to pay the right price? If you are willing to become a "fake" person and...

It depends on what kind of love we are speaking about..... 1.) You got object based love... I love my massage chair, I love a good cup of coffee, I love my cat/dog, etc. This love is a form of temporary pleasure, we continue to temporarily love these things or hobbies as long as our passion and...

I am an easy going guy that's willing to let just about anything go.... The 3 D's below I would never forgive and would be the end of the relationship; 1.) Dishonesty 2.) Disloyalty 3.) Deliberate abuse of any kind Any and all innocent or ignorant mistakes are easily understandable and...

You know your lonely when..... 1.) Music seems to be the only thing that gets you and never hates or leaves you. 2.) You are only remembered when its to someone you knows direct benefit. 3.) You actually do have a conversation, you end up repeating yourself because they are not really...

Its hope that in the unlikelihood that as you live your life as you are, staying true to yourself you will run across that special "someone" that truly gets you and love you. It is a hope I will cherish and look out for, but in the end if will be unlikely. I don't dismiss the possibility I just...

Hello dn560, The way I see this is you got two options.... You can either sit in your self defeat and let the ******** of life win, Or you can continue to persevere... push on and you can decide how things are going to be and win! I am not discounting your anguish and how it makes you feel...

Peaches, You are very welcome. One is glad to be of service. :)

A good way to tell if you acknowledge your acquaintance as a real genuine friend, is when you can leave them in your house all by there-selves for hours, and you don't have a single worry in the world if they are abusing your trust or not. If there is any doubt or worry at all, even a little...

Hello German American, First of all I am sorry to see you suffering in your state of loneliness. Like many of us here at ALL, we deal with our life of seclusion in our own way some for the better others for the worst. We get by day by day just the same! Just so you know I read all of your...