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No. I think this is a reversed paradigm. "I'm bipolar because I'm chemically imbalanced, I'm depressed due to a chemical balance, or I'm a dangerous psycho because of chemical imbalance." Wrong. You get the nutrients you need from food. But forming them into chemicals doesn't cause...

On the other end of the spectrum, I got invited to the prom, because the girl who invited me wanted to make up for her bf not being there/make him jealous. I got invited as a standin, he came so I had nobody to dance with. Years later, I'm still a virgin... :(

Excessive action is actually more likely to have killed your hopes and dreams. In other words, yes, you are actually suffering for not being competitive enough (inactive), allowing them to kill your hopes and dreams. But if you are competitive enough, likely you've killed other people's hopes...

You're missing a key point here. A couple, actually. One, these people who are asking you generally like you, and want you to go with them. Two, even if they didn't, most people at a prom don't care about the people they don't know. Three, in all likelihood, you'll go with your friends mostly...

I've never met any. Everyone I've met has either been distant, distant and when I tried to connect with them gave me a "back off" message, or manipulated me in some way. Most of my dreams haven't come true, so I just want to make people around me happy, and please them. They generally either...

I never eat at a restaurant alone, but for a different reason. I actually hate restaurant food, since you have no idea what sort of things they used (I think I've developed diabetes in the last year, so it actually matters). I'm okay with it only if I've worked for a very long day, and I'm...

Interestingly, ephebophilia (love of teen women), is often lumped in with paedophilia. Uhhh, let's see, I wouldn't mind dating a 16 or 17 year old woman if I just met her. Gasp, bulma, you're a child molester aren't you? Ummmmm, no? The only fetishes I draw the line at are things infantile...

1. Get in general shape, at least doing light exercise. It doesn't have to be great shape, but some activity. (Being a stick figure isn't exactly appealing, but neglecting your own health is generally a turn-off) 2. Become an interesting person, with things you like to do. (The whole point of...

This is a fact of life. I was visiting my sister in Arizona. I was walking across a park, and a cop decided I was "running from him" so he chased after me by car and questioned me. I told him how I was visiting my sister, and walking across the park, and I felt paranoid because he was coming...

That actually would be my ideal. A gamer/anime girl.

Seriously? Just say you had trouble saying his name. He can get over himself.

I've read health books. They say that overconfidence is called "conceit" and is a sign of low self-esteem. A confident person knows what they can do, and knows what they have trouble with. They keep quiet about both, because bragging is sorta stupid. A conceited person is the very type our...

It's bullshit. It's bullshit that people push to make themselves feel better about pushing other people around. Life is fair. This is the natural state of the world. Whether you're rich/poor/whatever, death erases everything. There may be an afterlife or there may not, but if there is, you...

I'd move to Canada. US hypocrisy about freedom sux. Even if Canada isn't that free, it at least doesn't make such claims. I'd also like to get a gf. ...And a job that allows me to do a wide variety of things (I have both computer and gardening skills). And somehow stay in touch with my...

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I'm not overweight, and don't have visible scars or pock-marks. I'm guessing I look and/or act unfriendly. Though I can occasionally know women as friends, it's never more than that.

One of my bosses told me "You don't care about anything but yourself."

Lol, we watched some Hawaii 5-0 last night, where this girl was hypnotized into shooting McGarret (btw, little known fact, you can't be hypnotized into doing something against your will). So this made me smile, even though hypnotherapy itself is serious.

I think this is key. Let's say as a rule of thumb (an expression that has an unfortunate background with regard to women), the guy unless he's so painfully shy it'd never happen calls the first date. To take the relationship to the next level, however, requires the interest of both parties, so...

So we've got two things going on here, that aren't being said. We have the OP who wonders why women never ask men (him). Some people are attractive and get asked, some don't. Simple as that. I've never been asked either, except once by another guy (told him no, since I was totally off guard...