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that's exactly what has happened to me. i think at this point everyone i meet online and my online friends all have friends in real life. they go off and do things have relationships and friendships and in the end they just serve as a reminder of what i don't have but want so badly.

i can relate. all i can watch now are investigative-type shows about homicide. i avoid most music. love is seriously everywhere, it's kind of REALLY annoying.

I agree. It isn't about looks. Also, there have been many a guy I've met who I thought was "ugly" at first, but their personalities were just so awesome that I eventually got extremely attracted to them. It seems people are drawn to those who act like they have self confidence...it's about...

man, I wish he was as in love with me as you are with your girl! haha you seem very sweet and passionate. She is a lucky woman! Unfortunately he is very hard to read. While he said he thought of me often and missed me and "kept coming back" etc. He made it seem like it was only in a platonic...

Thanks for the warm welcome guys! =)

Thank you for your valuable insight. I really appreciate it. For now I'm just working on our friendship and generally avoid talking about his gf. The little I've heard though is that things have been rocky for a while, but I know that doesn't mean anything in terms of him and me. I'm not gunna...

I hate the holidays as well. Especially this year with no job and money I can't even buy my family gifts. I am dreading spending New Years at home alone. Feels pathetic. All the joy around makes me feel like a loser and feel even more miserable and alone.

Depends on the love. The "love" I experienced was super shitty. I'd rather have not loved at all...

Yay glad you find something you like! I know for me clubbing has the opposite effect (I hate the feeling of men praying on me and trying to touch me inappropriately), but it works really well for you. I think that continuing to go every so often would be good. Would you be willing to go to a...

If it only that I had romantic feelings I'd cut my losses and run, but the reason why I am so torn is that he was the closest friend I ever had in my life. I have no friends in the area and having one that knows everything about me would make a world of a difference.

Thank you so much for your input. It is so great to finally get some thoughtful feedback (albeit I didn't give a lot of details) on this problem. I really appreciate it. I am still torn obviously because when I missed him this past year it wasn't on a romantic level. I missed him as a friend...

No you definitely expressed everything I have thought. It's just that I have no friends in real life and was thinking that one friend was better than none so I can have an excuse to leave the house. You're totally right. :) thanks for the insight

Oh i've done it so many times. I've spent a week straight in bed skipping classes and ignoring phone calls. Depression can suck

I am not a virgin but I can slightly understand. I think what is most important is not WHY you're waiting, but that you ARE waiting and you arent pushing yourself, you know? It's good tha tyou've come to a point where you aren't just throwing yourself out there when you're not ready. i hope...

I've been going through a particularly rough patch in life without my best friend. We didn't speak for a year (his decision) for the most part. He'd reappear every so often saying how he missed me and loved me (as a friend), I know him better than everyone else, and thought of me every day, etc...

I know how it feels to have emotional betrayal. I hope things work out sometimes we prematurely lament the demise of something but things turn out. I hope that is the case for you!

Hi I'm a female in my 20s who is super lonely. Had one bad relationship years ago that literally ruined my life. So I suffer from PTSD and have no friends or job or money to support or help alleviate things. I've been super depressed and been looking for people online with whom I can relate...