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I'm glad this didn't blow up. I agree that I will have to take more time than usual to find a group I am comfortable with. The problem I have is as stated that I always have to dumb myself down to 'fit'. It's really taxing pretending to be someone you're not. It's funny last nights south park...

Intellectualism has a meaning. It is being knowledgeable with yet even the thirst for more knowledge. I'm not a teen anymore. I think I am smart and I am confident I am smarter than someone talking about their collection of body tattoos like it's the best **** thing in the world. I believe you...

I'll be back later but I am truly disappointed in many of the replies here. I will probably not be using this forum anymore.

I do not believe in any of this 'friend-zone' theory. Some of the girls I've been with I have been friends with first.

Man I wish I got in here sooner... She is plain ******* with you. Like Crow said she's stringing you along making it a big joke. This happened to me before and unfortunately the only thing you can do is drop her like a bad habit. Seriously just don't text her, call her etc. It sucks but just...

Hey, 23 year old male from Ukraine living in New Jersey, I might be looking for someone I could spend time with. College student on break for the summer. Let me know...

If it's any solace I am "that guy" too. Granted I have a messed up past, but even before it I was treated like a leper.

Honestly what got me over the nervousness is to look at any girl as a friend first. Don't think "Oh shes pretty I wanna get with her." Think oh heres another friend I could make and act with her how you act with guys.

So I'm at a party with my friend and things start out ok. I'm talking with a few girls a few guys but then it broke down how it always does at parties. I end up standing/sitting alone looking around for someone to talk to. My best friend was there chatting up with his old friends that I didn't...

Name a town that's close to you, like hoboken, jersey city, etc

batman lol

I gotta agree with the OP's sentiment. The worst part is EVERYONE is into them. It's so hard to make friends when all someone wants to talk about is "Wow did you see how that ball went into that round hoop? its so NEW and EXCITING!" It's crazy just looking at the extravagant sportscenter stages...

let the Snooki jokes commence! haha seriously though, I live in central NJ around Bridgewater and Plainfield. I'm open to almost anyone just please don't be racist or anything like that. PM me if you're shy :)

I gotta agree with septicemia on this. If the girl 1) is being very distant and 2) she only knows your more subdued side, there could definitely be an issue. Not to be a pessimist, but for all you know she could not want to have sex period, and not just to provoke you to turn into some rape-man...

Fine: I will try to branch out and join clubs and activities. It's hard though when joining a new group because theres already a hierarchy established and you usually have to start at the bottom. I have a few family friends but they live far away and also I can't say I like them too much. My...

M4, I feel you. I'm in a major state school with 40000+ students but the sky would fall if any of them ever wanted to be my friend. I walk around my town and there are couples holding hands and mobs of young people talking and laughing. All while I walk by myself. I feel like i'm confident, but...

When you have *legit* zErO friends

Little reference for ya :D... anyway I just finished with classes for the spring and have a long summer ahead of me. Although I definitely look forward to laying around and doing nothing, that will get old in 0.2 seconds. My only friend has basically gone MIA, so here I am with noone to hang out...

Hi, first time on this board. I guess I'll start by talking a little about myself. I was born in Ukraine and moved to the US when I was very little. We moved a few times while I was younger, but now I live in central NJ. I am 23, and a junior in college. For as long as I can remember, I was...