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Congrats, I guess I'll be trying a dating site soon.

30 year old. Find new hobbies ? Build self-esteem, self-confidence ? Find people that are nice ? I guess it's really hard for 30+. People with lots of friends, want to stick with friends they had since early 20s ? I'm screwed too. Loner and have no plans on Fri/Sat.

I want my post to sound neutral and warm and not arrogant. And not sounding really boring, because I really want to help and stop someone falling into the same path as me. There are a few people in this forum, had problems making friends in high school. Then they worked hard to graduate...

It's sad to see that your friend worked hard to survive and didn't enjoy his time on this earth. The world is changing all the time. To survive, we need a job or a business to provide us a living. I'd say, enjoy the little things in life. And keep working on the dreams.

I agree, advice is subjective. I tried to fake it and it didn't work that's why I didn't like it. All advice is with good intention so no harm done.

See professional counseling. If you have an older and wise and mature friend, ask them for suggestion. Most of the lonely people on here, have the same problem.

Social activities that will improve myself and life. Because after 2 years in the martial art club, I don't really know any of them. And they don't invite me to do anything social, like hanging out at the movies or go eat dinner together on saturday nite. We had fun at martial art club that's...

I quit the club because there was no DEEP connect at all. Why would you waste time after almost 2 years ? I then spend 2~3 years doing things to discover myself and I made slight imiprovement. This is why I am here on the forum. I'm don't have a mental disorder yet, because I still have...

Yeah you must be the odd person out. I was in university for 3 years and didn't make any friends too. People don't want to be your friend because they are shallow and judge you because you are different. The best action you can take it graduate university with good grades. Then take treatment...

29 and you don't like your current situation ? Most of the popular people have friends from high school and stick it out in their early 20s. Then they grow up a bit and hang out with other late 20s. And you feel missed out ? Yeah it sucks. And I too am writing about how to get a social life at...

At 17 there's too much responsibility for you to handle. I believe other 17 y.o don't have that much trouble in their life. All I could say it to take 1 day at a time and graduate high school first. Goto college if you can, or get a job and start your working life experience. Other 17 y.o...

I play MMORPG, was obsessed with it and still a loner.

If a 14 y.o teenage girl moving to a new school and don't know anyone there and very worried. What advice would you give her ? Maybe you could think outside of the box.

hello, nice meeting you.

I am a loner and if you can held down a job then you should spend time and money on social activities. Get a phone and add people's number to it and slowly work on your people skills.

hey welcome. you will get through it.

You can't fake it but you can believe in the positive and motivate yourself. Fake is very bad advice , to me it simply means, stop being depressed all the time and do your best to be positive.

Good thing you are seeing therapy. You have a social life ? If you are slightly crazy by normal people's standard it's hard to meet other girls.

Hello friends I'm in my early 30s. I am a normal guy who had no friends in my 20s and it made me really low self-esteem and confidence. But now I feel confident and strong, just lack social life. I was a quiet guy in high school and had bad breath. Yes bad breath that's why I stay quiet. So...