hppnssseeker
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I'm in my late 30s and I've been single for a long time. The rare times I meet someone I like he's always unavailable. In the last 2 years I've intensified my efforts to meet new guys, especially through online dating. That's how a month ago I met the man of my dreams. Honestly, he has every single characteristic I've ever wanted in a guy. I couldn't believe my luck. We started dating and I made it clear I was looking for something serious. We decided to take it slow. He told me sex was important for him but he was ok with giving me the time I needed. After 6 weeks of dating I was ready for sex with him this weekend when out of the blue everything changed. He told me he ran into a woman he's always been attracted to but she had a boyfriend. Now she's breaking up with her boyfriend and he wants to pursue her. He told me he feels a lot of potential with me as well and now he's confused. He assumed I wouldn't want to keep seeing him, since multiple dating isn't normal in my culture. However, I really like him, I've waited a long time for someone like him and I'm not ready to let him go without a fight. So I told him we could keep seeing each other while being free to date other people as well. I've never found myself in this kind of situation before and I have doubts. I'm curious to see if we are really as compatible as we seem, included sexually. There is a chance that he goes out with this other woman and realizes she's not right for him. I feel it's way too soon to make any drastic decisions. I'm obviously worried about getting hurt, but at the same time I feel if I don't pursue this I'll regret it for the rest of my life. I guess I'm here to vent and look for advice on how to handle the situation.