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I can't believe I'm writing this but I guess it's not so bad hiding behind my keyboard.
I'm just looking for some answers and I want you to be brutally honest and not worry about hurting my feelings.
I'm in my mid thirties and I have never been in a relationship. Looking at me you would never think that as I'm not bad looking and I'm a very genuine emotionally intelligent person.
This is where it ends though, as all my life I can never get the girl I fall in love with. Worse thing is I fall in love with girls I cannot get, to be more specific, girls who believe in only going with white guys. I was born in England and have very European features and light skinned ( not that this matters )
But what I want to ask is, do you think it's possible for a girl who thinks that way to change her feelings towards me? We're already good friends, and she's younger then me but I've fallen in love with her and this keeps happening to me. It's like on some subconscious level I am attracted to girls like this.
What I want to know is, is this not worth pursuing?
Should I keep investing my emotions into this, well it's not like I have a choice but I like to hope, hope is all I have. My time is running out and I don't want to be alone till I die.
I thought I'd accepted this, but it turns out it's a natural human trait to want to be with someone.
So is it possible to change a girls mind who thinks that people should stick to their own race?
I'm just looking for some answers and I want you to be brutally honest and not worry about hurting my feelings.
I'm in my mid thirties and I have never been in a relationship. Looking at me you would never think that as I'm not bad looking and I'm a very genuine emotionally intelligent person.
This is where it ends though, as all my life I can never get the girl I fall in love with. Worse thing is I fall in love with girls I cannot get, to be more specific, girls who believe in only going with white guys. I was born in England and have very European features and light skinned ( not that this matters )
But what I want to ask is, do you think it's possible for a girl who thinks that way to change her feelings towards me? We're already good friends, and she's younger then me but I've fallen in love with her and this keeps happening to me. It's like on some subconscious level I am attracted to girls like this.
What I want to know is, is this not worth pursuing?
Should I keep investing my emotions into this, well it's not like I have a choice but I like to hope, hope is all I have. My time is running out and I don't want to be alone till I die.
I thought I'd accepted this, but it turns out it's a natural human trait to want to be with someone.
So is it possible to change a girls mind who thinks that people should stick to their own race?