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Popular Girl taking over and getting too much attention
#1
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So I'm in 8th garde.

And so theres this girl in the class, shes the popular one.
All the girls follow her at break time, like where ever she goes the girls follow her. 
All the boys has a crush on her, literally every boy in our class has had a crush on her.
She is good at everything. She has the most perfect handwriting, shes good at art, singing, dancing, shes super pretty. She is a super organized person, and she has great fashion style. She literally has rainbows in her eyes, she has green hazel a little bit of red. She's not too skinny or too fat. Shes not too small or too tall. Shes good at school, like shes doesn't get perfect grades but she gets like 50-70%
She's also funny and all the boys like her. Like her textbooks are all organised, she has that perfect handwriting that you find when you google "perfect handwriting". She's also very rich, she just came back from a cruise and now shes going on another on in the summer vacations.
So Yeah I think you get why shes popular, but like every popular girl, shes a bitch.

She walks a little faster at break time so shes ahead of the girls and it looks like they are following her, and if the girls dont follow her when she walks somewhere else she awkwardly comes back, or shes like "come on guys!" And she pulls us by hand. And it's so annoying, like I don't wanna be her sheep so when everyone goes to her and I stay back I go back to them because I dont wanna seem like a loner Sad
And the super annoying this is that shes actually a fun person, like shes fun to hangout with but she is still a bitch.
Like when shes in the middle but some of the girls are kinda pushing her out when we are walking she spreads her arms and when shes walking she literally pushes us a little to the side. It's hard to explain but.

And the thing about all boys having a crush on her. Like I hear the boys like "I wanna fuc her". And now shes being a bitch about it... Once at lunch time when we were all sitting she was giving us a list of people having a crush on her "Omg all the boys have a crush on me, like (names all the  boys having a crush on her) And it just makes us all so uncomfortable. Her best friend had a crush on this guy and the guy was super nice to that best friend, and we were all trying to figure out who he likes and the popular girl was like "Omg It's obviously me! All the boys like me"

She loves attention. And so me and her are like good friends we hang out n stuff, but when ever we thing of a fun idea or something she takes credit, let me give a list.
- When we were all outside chilling I found a broken pink phone and a shovel next to it and we were all laughing we picked it up with the shovel and went to the boys to show we were breaking the phone open and stuff. And then when the school bell rang and we were walking back to class and she was like "Im so glad I found the phone" And I was like "lol I found the phone" and she was like "Well I fond the shovel" Like beech u didn't.

- We had to do a community project as pairs and me and her were pairs, And I thought of the idea of helping dogs in a way, and she kept saying stuff like "This was my idea" like beeesh

- In ICT (computer class) we had to think of something to make an app for. And when we took the tablets were secretly playing a kids game (where u outline numbers and letters) and then I was like "OMG im gonna do my app about this". and when we were both were making it she was like "I thought of this idea" and sheet. like OMg

Ok and another annoying thing she said

We were all talking about who would be who in the High School Musical movie (We all love that movie)

And I was like to another girl "Omg you should be gabriella cuz you have blackish brown hair!" and then the popular girl was like "No Im gabriella because im the gabriella in the class" Like omg what.

So yeah.. help me what do i do how do i make myself feel better.

Shes like like regina George from Mean girls.
And she says stuff like "There are no popular girls in our class!"
 HELP EME WHAT TO DO
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#2
Ok... One just because a boy says he wants to fuck someone doesn't mean it's a crush, doesn't mean he even likes her. It's just a stupid thing teenagers (and some adults) say because hormones and puberty.

Two, you said she's your friend... Why? If you don't even like her why do you label her as your friend? 

Three, simple fix if you don't want to hang around this person... Don't hang around her. You've only got what four more years of high school? After that you probably won't ever see her or even most of your class ever again.

Last, high school really isn't that big of a deal. Have fun, do your best grades wise and go to college if your career goals call for it. But don't take it too seriously because it's ending and soon.

Hope that helps.
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#3
Is she called Stacy?
Loneliness of spirit is discovered in our depths.
Sometimes, when we least expect it, loneliness freezes us.
Or perhaps it feels like the bottom dropping out of our being.
We feel incomplete, as if something important is missing.
We feel shaky and insecure inside, weak and 'clingy'.
Sometimes this gnawing deficiency makes us want to 'devour' others
—to get as much of them as possible,
to complete our egos by possessing them.
Or we might seek to be supported and protected by others.
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#4
(06-10-2018, 04:03 AM)Xpendable Wrote: Is she called Stacy?

https://youtu.be/dZLfasMPOU4
I never give up
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#5
(06-09-2018, 11:14 PM)kaetic Wrote: Two, you said she's your friend... Why? If you don't even like her why do you label her as your friend? 

Three, simple fix if you don't want to hang around this person... Don't hang around her. You've only got what four more years of high school? After that you probably won't ever see her or even most of your class ever again.

I was thinking this too, reading through the post. I was also thinking that you can't have both. You either hang with her, or you don't. If you happen to seem like a loner because you don't care to be around her, that's just something that's going to happen if someone were to think it. No one may even think that, other than yourself overthinking it. But you either do or you don't. I personally never hang around people - even 12 years removed from schooling - that I don't care to be around. I'll gladly look like a loner if it means I don't have to deal with someone.
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#6
Probably important to keep the age of the OP in mind and tailor constructive responses accordingly.
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#7
Of course me not being a member of this forum anymore I can't comment anyway Toungue

But during my single mother years when I had three hours free in the evenings Big Grin which were very handy when my kid was in a similar position to the op , the numerous meetings with teachers that followed(I'll not say why) and the shit that resulted over six months of hell for me as a parent.....and all that I learnt about popular teenagers and followers .I still wouldn't touch this with a bargepole (give advice I mean) Club

By the way adults nick ideas too I've got the tee shirt.
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#8
OK. I was a nerd at school.

I'm 48 and can only give you my life experience. The "popular girl" will end up with a teenaged pregnancy and spend her life overweight and working at Walmart on minimum wage. You will quietly do well. I'm not saying this to be nice; I'm saying it because I'm old enough to have seen this play out many times, and I know I'm right.
When a man loves cats, I am his friend and comrade without further introduction."
 - Mark Twain.
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#9
^
Cope.
Loneliness of spirit is discovered in our depths.
Sometimes, when we least expect it, loneliness freezes us.
Or perhaps it feels like the bottom dropping out of our being.
We feel incomplete, as if something important is missing.
We feel shaky and insecure inside, weak and 'clingy'.
Sometimes this gnawing deficiency makes us want to 'devour' others
—to get as much of them as possible,
to complete our egos by possessing them.
Or we might seek to be supported and protected by others.
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#10
(06-09-2018, 11:14 PM)kaetic Wrote: Ok... One just because a boy says he wants to fuck someone doesn't mean it's a crush, doesn't mean he even likes her. It's just a stupid thing teenagers (and some adults) say because hormones and puberty.

Two, you said she's your friend... Why? If you don't even like her why do you label her as your friend? 

Three, simple fix if you don't want to hang around this person... Don't hang around her. You've only got what four more years of high school? After that you probably won't ever see her or even most of your class ever again.

Last, high school really isn't that big of a deal. Have fun, do your best grades wise and go to college if your career goals call for it. But don't take it too seriously because it's ending and soon.

Hope that helps.

I know the guy who wants to fuc her doesn't have a crush on her. Just the fact that every boy in the class has liked her in some way, I don't really care if they like me or not it's just frustrating.
I mean shes fun to hang out with but she can be a bitch

All the girls revolve around her, so if I don't have out with her. Theres no one to hang out. Theres two other girls but they are always on their phone and I don't get along with them and stuff.
I can't have fun if I'm sitting on a bench alone at break or lunch time, or I can;t have fun at the library alone.

I can't stay alone for 4 years. My best friend is leaving next year. 
I know high school isn't a big deal but I wanna have fun. That popular girl is fun but It's just torturing to just sit around as she pushes people.
It's ending in 4 years 
I just want to have a good time at school. 
Idk I just needed to rant because I can't tell any of my friends at school.
And she doesn't flirt with guys n stuff, she just doesn't seem to care.
It's just she has a perfect life and idk

(06-12-2018, 08:48 PM)TheLoadedDog Wrote: OK.  I was a nerd at school.

I'm 48 and can only give you my life experience.  The "popular girl" will end up with a teenaged pregnancy and spend her life overweight and working at Walmart on minimum wage.  You will quietly do well.  I'm not saying this to be nice; I'm saying it because I'm old enough to have seen this play out many times, and I know I'm right.

But what am I supposed to do with that information.

I just want my school life to be fun.
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