I’ve been holding myself back from posting here for a while because it seems really dumb, but it’s been weighing on me for a while now and I need to let it out.
I’m a big extrovert, I have lots of friends, I’m the social chair for a very active sports team. And I’m so goddamn lonely all the time, even in the middle of parties at my house surrounded by all my friends, I still feel detached. It’s really important for me to try to help everyone feel included and make sure nobody else feels like I do, but I don’t know if I can keep it up forever. I’ve been drinking more and more and being so goofy and reckless.
I just don’t know how to explain to my friends because I love them so much but there’s something in me that doesn’t work right. And I feel like I’ve put myself into this position as the social center of our whole extended crew that now so many people rely on me to be that positive fun good time person. I want to be that. I guess I’m good at it. But I’m so lonely.
I’m a big extrovert, I have lots of friends, I’m the social chair for a very active sports team. And I’m so goddamn lonely all the time, even in the middle of parties at my house surrounded by all my friends, I still feel detached. It’s really important for me to try to help everyone feel included and make sure nobody else feels like I do, but I don’t know if I can keep it up forever. I’ve been drinking more and more and being so goofy and reckless.
I just don’t know how to explain to my friends because I love them so much but there’s something in me that doesn’t work right. And I feel like I’ve put myself into this position as the social center of our whole extended crew that now so many people rely on me to be that positive fun good time person. I want to be that. I guess I’m good at it. But I’m so lonely.