10 Myths About Singles Over 40

[Bones]

<---Remains silent after getting pwned by Naleena (& people choking because of it).

I'm sorry if your feelings were hurt, but some people feel my post that I made earlier to be shallow sooo... I meant every word of it. I'm a shallow biotch for attempting to make people think about what it is they want in someone. So you need to add one more catagory to your list for me.

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You won't say anything?...lol I guess not when your cupping my boobies with your big paw. Whatcha got to say about that? I still say that Brohug looks more like a biotch slap....lol.

Since I may mess this up somehow or say something incorrect, I will simply give you a hug, ok?

Not true at all - while this will sound strange, it hurt my feelings & made me feel sad to read it - hopefully, you are joking & it went right over my head because you are a good & caring person.

I'm sorry if your feelings were hurt, but some people feel my post that I made earlier to be shallow sooo... I meant every word of it. I'm a shallow biotch for attempting to make people think about what it is they want in someone. So you need to add one more catagory to your list for me.

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*choke*

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[MTrip]

The OP, & Peaches' & rdor's initial replies, pretty much sum it up. I'm heading toward 40 at light speed & all those stereotypes have already landed & are deploying troops...

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Naleena isn't over 40, is she? I thought she was in her 30's?

 

[smarty24]

not sure is #2 myth or not...

 

[QuietDesperation]

I don't know if I can reply to a thread this old, but I'll try.

This is probably more accurate for women over 40 who have never been married:

1. Ugly af

2. Weird, scared, anxious, awkward vibe that's a turnoff to people

3. Mental health problems - which may include #2.

4. Is especially nervous/awkward around guys she likes - and this makes her seem less attractive and desirable, so they don't like her

5. Still lives at home with her parents - and has never moved out (probably not as much a stigma for women than men)

6. Is chronically unemployed or underemployed - though guys aren't as picky on jobs/career than women are

7. Too picky, thinks too highly of herself

8. The type of guys she likes doesn't like her, and the type of guys who like her - she doesn't like them. There's nothing ever mutual. For example, she may like unconventional, artsy guys with tattoos and long hair - but those types of guys don't like her.


Or any combination of the above.

 

[Bored]

I think it can also come down to a lack of experience seems like a red flag when in reality it is just a lack of experience. And some instantly rule this as reason for not being interested.