northoftheborder
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I'm not "lonely" persay but i don't interact with people like i used to.
I no longer go out on weekends to be social, no longer search out friendships, no longer have any real family to call and say hello to barring a few that we toss comments to every now and then on facebook. I have a 72 year old mother that lives 120km away and when she is gone let's just say any need for a home phone will be gone as well since it doesn't ring from anyone else but her calling.
I have always been a bit of an introvert and got out of that for a decade or so and was very social..now it seems i am once again an introvert. I have taken week long vacations and literally not left the house aside from shopping and a few other necessities for the whole 9 days.
I do play online video games and find the mental escape of an MMO or RPG allows me some enjoyment. Its not an addiction and does not consume my life at all. I work 60 hours a week and rarely even touch anything like a game until Saturday or Sunday's.
What i am afraid of is life as i grow older. When mom is gone i have no connection left to my family at all. My father's side of the family basically ignored we existed after he died and my mothers side of the family doesnt speak to each other and any idea of reconciliations are long past. I have no brothers or Sisters and any close relationships i had growing up all have moved on with families of their own. I am not married and have no kids.
Just afraid i'll be one of those stories people read about in the papers when i grow old that a man was found dead 8 months after he passed away.
It just seems that outside the daily interaction i have after teaching safety courses to people , or my administrative duties and interacting with office staff all day i get home on weekends and Vacations and dont want human interaction...
can't figure out if its signs of depression starting to creep in which is not common but not unheard of in my family or if i am just a more "extreme" version of an introvert.. either way the fear of growing old alone is starting to hit.
I no longer go out on weekends to be social, no longer search out friendships, no longer have any real family to call and say hello to barring a few that we toss comments to every now and then on facebook. I have a 72 year old mother that lives 120km away and when she is gone let's just say any need for a home phone will be gone as well since it doesn't ring from anyone else but her calling.
I have always been a bit of an introvert and got out of that for a decade or so and was very social..now it seems i am once again an introvert. I have taken week long vacations and literally not left the house aside from shopping and a few other necessities for the whole 9 days.
I do play online video games and find the mental escape of an MMO or RPG allows me some enjoyment. Its not an addiction and does not consume my life at all. I work 60 hours a week and rarely even touch anything like a game until Saturday or Sunday's.
What i am afraid of is life as i grow older. When mom is gone i have no connection left to my family at all. My father's side of the family basically ignored we existed after he died and my mothers side of the family doesnt speak to each other and any idea of reconciliations are long past. I have no brothers or Sisters and any close relationships i had growing up all have moved on with families of their own. I am not married and have no kids.
Just afraid i'll be one of those stories people read about in the papers when i grow old that a man was found dead 8 months after he passed away.
It just seems that outside the daily interaction i have after teaching safety courses to people , or my administrative duties and interacting with office staff all day i get home on weekends and Vacations and dont want human interaction...
can't figure out if its signs of depression starting to creep in which is not common but not unheard of in my family or if i am just a more "extreme" version of an introvert.. either way the fear of growing old alone is starting to hit.