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insecure

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I recently turned 55.
I feel like if a woman is into me, I will probably not find her attractive.
At the same time I feel lonely.
I think I would feel better, even if I had a purely sexual relationship with a woman, as long as I know she's not there for ulterior motives (money, visa, etc.).
At this point I'm in a situation where I don't have that much spare time, so it would be nice to meet someone with whom there is a mutual attraction.
But I'm not the type of guy who will go around seducing women, never have been, and at my age, it doesn't feel like women are really interested.
On dating sites, I get either women who I don't find attractive, or all kinds of scams (crypto, NFT, will travel need money, wants to marry for visum, etc.) or women with ulterior motives (looking for sugardaddy, want money for "babysit" in order to date, etc.).
I already went to a live dating session twice, and the results was that I received 0 likes.
So I guess I'm not desirable enough.
 
I recently turned 55.
I feel like if a woman is into me, I will probably not find her attractive.
At the same time I feel lonely.
I think I would feel better, even if I had a purely sexual relationship with a woman, as long as I know she's not there for ulterior motives (money, visa, etc.).
At this point I'm in a situation where I don't have that much spare time, so it would be nice to meet someone with whom there is a mutual attraction.
But I'm not the type of guy who will go around seducing women, never have been, and at my age, it doesn't feel like women are really interested.
On dating sites, I get either women who I don't find attractive, or all kinds of scams (crypto, NFT, will travel need money, wants to marry for visum, etc.) or women with ulterior motives (looking for sugardaddy, want money for "babysit" in order to date, etc.).
I already went to a live dating session twice, and the results was that I received 0 likes.
So I guess I'm not desirable enough.
I'm married and don't feel desirable enough. 54
 
Me too... 56 male, single never married. Dont know what to do to find companionship.
 

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