hitch1983
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Just really here to get rid of these thoughts. Dont have anyone to share it with.
3 months ago i got talking to a girl off a christian website. Before her i just finished with a girl who was a catfish. It was a very frustrating and you could say damaging relationship. Didnt end well lets just say that.
So after a short period of time i went looking thru all the online avenues with a vengeance. Louise or weezy as she likes to be known pops up. She didnt have a profile picture, but with my state of play and loneliness i replied anyway.
Anyways turns out not only was she nice but also quite pretty. So got my hopes up.
Should have known there be a catch though. She suffers from depression but is recovering, to the extent shes almost living a normal life so to speak.
I was a bit down in confidence from my last experience so wasnt really rushing into arranging a meet, but eventually i did, but was knocked back with the excuse need to get to know each other more. Which is fine, it was her first online experience, i can understand why she wouldnt just jump in there.
So we get talking more by text, online and get on quite good. So much soo i ask for a date for the second time. She says yes. I get my hopes up and look forward to it......
She then stands me up and says she couldnt because depression was too much.
I give her the benefit of the doubt and continue talking with her.....weeks pass on and i get the courage to ask her again, but this time life gets in the way for us both. She is going on a holiday with her parents for 10 days and shortly after she is back im away to egypt with some friends for 2 weeks. So we arrange to have a date when we are both back.
By now we have gotten quite comfortable with each by text, and the conversations are little more familar and couplish but i still found it impossible for her to really open up to me.
But anyways at first opportunity to have a date when i was back we had.
Last saturday to be exact. It wasnt the best date nor the worst. In fact it felt kinda rushed and didnt really get much chance to bond with her.
We went to the cinema and then had dinner.
Anyways whilst i didnt think it was a fall in love kinda date, i felt it was ok and enough to keep things going for future dates to actually see if we were compatible.
But on MOnday i get a horrible text saying i dont think i felt a spark and basically said there would be no more dates.
I feel like ive been thru the wringer again and im struggling to cope with this empty void thats appeared in my life again.
Ive already started looking thru the websites, but this time its different. Im seeing all these faces, and ive not got the motivation to talk to anyone.....
how can i break free from this?
3 months ago i got talking to a girl off a christian website. Before her i just finished with a girl who was a catfish. It was a very frustrating and you could say damaging relationship. Didnt end well lets just say that.
So after a short period of time i went looking thru all the online avenues with a vengeance. Louise or weezy as she likes to be known pops up. She didnt have a profile picture, but with my state of play and loneliness i replied anyway.
Anyways turns out not only was she nice but also quite pretty. So got my hopes up.
Should have known there be a catch though. She suffers from depression but is recovering, to the extent shes almost living a normal life so to speak.
I was a bit down in confidence from my last experience so wasnt really rushing into arranging a meet, but eventually i did, but was knocked back with the excuse need to get to know each other more. Which is fine, it was her first online experience, i can understand why she wouldnt just jump in there.
So we get talking more by text, online and get on quite good. So much soo i ask for a date for the second time. She says yes. I get my hopes up and look forward to it......
She then stands me up and says she couldnt because depression was too much.
I give her the benefit of the doubt and continue talking with her.....weeks pass on and i get the courage to ask her again, but this time life gets in the way for us both. She is going on a holiday with her parents for 10 days and shortly after she is back im away to egypt with some friends for 2 weeks. So we arrange to have a date when we are both back.
By now we have gotten quite comfortable with each by text, and the conversations are little more familar and couplish but i still found it impossible for her to really open up to me.
But anyways at first opportunity to have a date when i was back we had.
Last saturday to be exact. It wasnt the best date nor the worst. In fact it felt kinda rushed and didnt really get much chance to bond with her.
We went to the cinema and then had dinner.
Anyways whilst i didnt think it was a fall in love kinda date, i felt it was ok and enough to keep things going for future dates to actually see if we were compatible.
But on MOnday i get a horrible text saying i dont think i felt a spark and basically said there would be no more dates.
I feel like ive been thru the wringer again and im struggling to cope with this empty void thats appeared in my life again.
Ive already started looking thru the websites, but this time its different. Im seeing all these faces, and ive not got the motivation to talk to anyone.....
how can i break free from this?