Bill Compton
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I'm majorly confused and this is really messing with my head. When I was younger friends were always there for you. They answered the phone, texts, made time for you and with true best friends nothing was ever too much. This is how I treat my friends too, and still do.
I've just hit thirty and its changing so much. People are just not there for me anymore. I can't figure out if its the change in social attitude and how people are becoming lazy, not bothered to reply or possibly im just put on the back burner.
Or if its because I'm older and people have no time (they have jobs,etc), but I worked 12 hours days for years and still made time for my friends.
Lastly could it be me? am I needy? but I'm almost 100% sure im not. I just want the same respect and treatment back. Maybe Im too nice or too sensitive. I dont exactly give away too much to people, I keep a line of respect, althoug I do have an open heart and Im really honest.
The same thing seems to be happening with girls too.
Man its killing me cause all I've ever done is be nice to people, without being too nice (you know a normal amount) and I never get the same back.
Anyone else have this. Can anyone explain why cause without good friends life is pointless. for me anyhow....
I've just hit thirty and its changing so much. People are just not there for me anymore. I can't figure out if its the change in social attitude and how people are becoming lazy, not bothered to reply or possibly im just put on the back burner.
Or if its because I'm older and people have no time (they have jobs,etc), but I worked 12 hours days for years and still made time for my friends.
Lastly could it be me? am I needy? but I'm almost 100% sure im not. I just want the same respect and treatment back. Maybe Im too nice or too sensitive. I dont exactly give away too much to people, I keep a line of respect, althoug I do have an open heart and Im really honest.
The same thing seems to be happening with girls too.
Man its killing me cause all I've ever done is be nice to people, without being too nice (you know a normal amount) and I never get the same back.
Anyone else have this. Can anyone explain why cause without good friends life is pointless. for me anyhow....