Asking for help.

[BrunoPT]

So the thing is....
I had my first love when i was 12 or 13... the first and the biggest i did some stupid things for her but she never loved me back. Since then i had like 4 girlfriends but i never felt that true love and it ended up always with a bad break up. But now i have a friend that i met 3 years ago from my class and she is just perfect. Every time i look at her face i get lost ... every time! She made me feel like i could truly love a girl again and forget my awfull past. Altough she doesn't like me BAM right in the kisser! I keep getting friendzoned all the time and since i am a big friend of her she always talks about her ex and it just breaks my heart.

So i am asking you guys the best way to forget someone. Should i stop talking to her?

THX in advance.

 

[Lonely in BC]

BrunoPT- as painful as this may sound I kind of hope you can't forget about her. I've had that special feeling for someone for almost 30 years now. I'm kind of glad it went nowhere- if it had it I wouldn't have that memory of a "perfect love". Her name is Wendy, I've run into her a couple of times over the years and I still like the feeling I get the odd time I've seen her or think about her.

I've often thought of tracking her down to see how her life is but I really don't want to spoil it.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

That chick in my avitar had been driving me nutz for the past 25 years.
I met her when I was a kid too.
We got intimidated and then some.

Yeah, i never felt the love from anyone
Else.
Yes, its possible to move on.
I got married and got into long terms
Relationships too.
Yeah break up are hard enough as it
is. And every break up triggers whatever
Un resolved love, hate,anger with her.
Which makes it feels 10 times harder.
Then I react to it and make it all messed.

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Whatever the fresia unresolve honeysuckle we deem we must have...
We living together again and again,
Even NOW.
I got back with her after divorce, even.
And it probably just as intense for her....

I don't do friendzone to get over a woman...

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I dont wanna like im a womenizer
Or a fucken duche bag..but there's
been plenty of women that came in
And out of my life. After a terrible
Bresk up. I go on a binge or spreed.
fresia it all....women an d booze.
I cant deal with the pains and
I can't wrap my head around
The moral and values that's
been fed to me.

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And it fucks with my head even more
That some women like cling to me when
Im in a fresia up zone.

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Its impossible to forget her...
Your brain stores memories
With strong emotions attached
To memories of her..
Everytime you duscuss about her, talk to her
Or even think of her. Your brain stores more
Memories of her....then it get stores in your
Subconscious mind....A smell of a rose
Or a color can trigger nemories of her.

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I guess if you really want to move forward without her.
Associate her with negative feelings.
Let go of thoughts and feelings of her as
They arrise....Dont run with them and resolve them.

AGAiN..you gotta really assertive with yourself.

Ive tried the HATE method with her.
It dosnt work for ne..

Evudentky im still kuving with her.