A few months ago I got dumpe by my ex girlfriend. We where in long distance relationship. So, if wanted I couldn't follow up. One of the bigest problems- she had just too many male friends. Which sometimes drove me crazy. The day before she pulled the plug, she stated that she needed time to think things throught. That was the second scariest night of my life yet. All those thoughts and stuff. I called her once but dropped. Right after I received a text, but I just shaked her off with "Everyhing is OK".
The very next day she dropped me. But you know, "I want us to be friends. Because you don't have any. And you're very special to me" Her words.
While ago she told me, what she was actually doing while I was shaking in fear, and...yes cried. She ws hanging out with her male-friend/ex boyfriend. Watching movies. I was pissed off. Not braking things or so, but really hurt. Got that feeling that I can't trust to a woman anymore. I told her how I felt. Seemed that she got the lesson. And yet she still were shouting: I want you in my life. You're important to me. Kinda funny, she stopped contacting with me. "Ok...if that's she want, let you have it"- I said. After sometime she wrote me....just some small talk, like how are you and stuff, but then it got weirder. She told that she felt me. How I feel. That I don't do so well these days. She claims, that she will be always there for me and stuff.
One of my theories is that she writes me only when she got bored with other friends. And then she remembers....yeah, that poor guy.
My question is: what do you see here? Her intensions?
The very next day she dropped me. But you know, "I want us to be friends. Because you don't have any. And you're very special to me" Her words.
While ago she told me, what she was actually doing while I was shaking in fear, and...yes cried. She ws hanging out with her male-friend/ex boyfriend. Watching movies. I was pissed off. Not braking things or so, but really hurt. Got that feeling that I can't trust to a woman anymore. I told her how I felt. Seemed that she got the lesson. And yet she still were shouting: I want you in my life. You're important to me. Kinda funny, she stopped contacting with me. "Ok...if that's she want, let you have it"- I said. After sometime she wrote me....just some small talk, like how are you and stuff, but then it got weirder. She told that she felt me. How I feel. That I don't do so well these days. She claims, that she will be always there for me and stuff.
One of my theories is that she writes me only when she got bored with other friends. And then she remembers....yeah, that poor guy.
My question is: what do you see here? Her intensions?