This is my situation: I have never dated before so I don't have much experience with relationships and I'm unsure of what to expect. I saw a girl from my class who I thought was cute at the gym two days ago, and we hooked up. And yesterday we made out pretty hard. The thing is I am leaving for school to another city in two months, and she actually said that this is why she moved so quickly with me. None of us want to get hurt, and also she doesn't date non-Christan guys, so this is a two-months hook up for sure. So we agreed to be "friends with benefits".
The thing is I think she's into me a bit too much because she said she was jealous when I talked to other girls in class. So she said she now wants to keep it exclusive. She also called me at night and we talked and flirted for a while. We agreed to meet up tomorrow and she asked me to get condoms.
I'm 21 and also a virgin, and pretty horny. I'm not sure how important it is to keep my virginity. But I also want to be careful because I don't really know her and don't know what could go wrong. My very good friend met her and thinks that even thought she is a nice person I could do much better, and that I should consider saving my virginity for "the one". I kind of like the gf/bf thing, even if temporary, but it feels a little off since I'm not that into her--I just think she's cute--and besides, we'll have to end the relationship in two months.
Here's what I think: If I decide to go with the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing, I'd like to keep it exclusive. But I don't know how it will affect us when split up in two months. And if I decide to be just "friends with benefits", I don't know if I will feel good about it either. This is a really big thing for me. Any advice?
Should I agree to keep our relationship exclusive?
How involved should I be in the relationship?
Should I loose my virginity to her?
The thing is I think she's into me a bit too much because she said she was jealous when I talked to other girls in class. So she said she now wants to keep it exclusive. She also called me at night and we talked and flirted for a while. We agreed to meet up tomorrow and she asked me to get condoms.
I'm 21 and also a virgin, and pretty horny. I'm not sure how important it is to keep my virginity. But I also want to be careful because I don't really know her and don't know what could go wrong. My very good friend met her and thinks that even thought she is a nice person I could do much better, and that I should consider saving my virginity for "the one". I kind of like the gf/bf thing, even if temporary, but it feels a little off since I'm not that into her--I just think she's cute--and besides, we'll have to end the relationship in two months.
Here's what I think: If I decide to go with the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing, I'd like to keep it exclusive. But I don't know how it will affect us when split up in two months. And if I decide to be just "friends with benefits", I don't know if I will feel good about it either. This is a really big thing for me. Any advice?
Should I agree to keep our relationship exclusive?
How involved should I be in the relationship?
Should I loose my virginity to her?