Boyfriends, girlfriends & single life

[Arsenic Queen]

What's your romantic situation?

Are you in a couple? Married? Single? Looking for love? Single and happy of it?

I didn't see any grouped discussion about this, only little individual threads, so I thought I'd start one centralized effort. So it's not just about one specific situation but rather a sort of "GQ" containing all of us.

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-AQ-
Myself as it's probably starting to be obvious to some of you, I'm in my 30s, single. With 2 kids, but they don't live with me full time. Looking for love, oh yeah. Been lonely for quite a while and it's starting to weight on me.

Not in any rush though, I'd like to eventually match with someone I feel good with. I'd rather share interests and let things come naturally. I don't want to pressure it.

As for sexuality... it's a conversation topic I like, online and in real life, with friends, and it can be fun. Zero action with anyone at the moment though, and since a few years. It's usually the total opposite when I'm in a relationship, but with me there's rarely any grey zone when it comes to it. I like to keep myself for a Chosen One.


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So. What about you, nice people?

 

[Lonesome Crow]

In a relationship in a complicated at the moment.
Lots of everything. From one
Extreem to the other.
When its good. Its unbelievably
Great. When its bad. Its a major
Nightmare.
We love each other very much.
Sometimes we try too or not
hard enough. Life seems to be
Going against us.

Were together, shes laying here by my side
As im writing this...inspite of all the
Crazy honeysuckle we lived through.
Sometimes we create our own trouble.
Other times its just life on lifes terms

We have a history. She was my high school
sweet heart. The young woman on my
Avitra is our daughter, KIMI K
Thats kind of complicated too.

---

I can probably write a little novel
About my relationship with Renae.
Its been a journey on the out
And on the inside

Its full of everything.
Lots of love, lot of hate.
Lots of sex. Lots of lies.
Lots of hurt. Lots peace.

We just want to be a regular
Normal couple..but were not.

She's cucasian. Im asian.
Just this in itself puts a little twist
In it....but were both twisted
tk begin with.

Just trying to love one another.

Our sex life it totally amazing.
Love our children.

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We don't argue about not having enough sex..thats for sure.

 

[TheSolitaryMan]

I think my status has been in so many of my threads recently most people are probably tired of reading it! Nonetheless, I will summarise here for completeness

TSM

20, single, always have been! Since being about 15-16 I've wanted to get closer to a girl than standard friendship, but through a combination of poor luck, low confidence and no actual experience I've not been able to do that.

Above everything right now, I really desire my first kiss.

I'm finding that I know how to interact with girls really positively, but I'm absolutely terrible at developing the confidence needed to realise a girl likes me and take that further. I've never managed to bring myself to ask a girl out, for example.

Pretty fed up with being single, especially when everyone around me seems to flaunt their relationships at every opportunity.

Fortunately, I think in changing my body over the last year I'm perhaps finally getting some confidence in myself. I still feel that I'm going to be lonely for a while yet, however, since my current work circumstances seem to make a relationship quite impractical.

PS: Good thread topic, it's interesting reading

 

[kamya]

Single. Not looking. If something randomly falls into my lap then who knows but I'm not really concerned with finding someone.

 

[TropicalStarfish]

Single.

 

[PurpleDays]

Currently in a relationship, but had a minor squabble last night, and he's fallen off the mobile phone stratosphere, so I'm currently stressing and worrying and making contingency plans in case he leaves me.

 

[kinzeUK]

Single, single and single.

And yes I'd love to meet that special someone who walks right out of a contrived romantic comedy and into my life.

Meh.

 

[PurpleDays]

EDIT for mine:

Happily in a relationship, but painfully neurotic.

Seeing him in 3 days. :3

 

[Nolife Princess]

In a relationship in a complicated at the moment.
Lots of everything. From one
Extreem to the other.
When its good. Its unbelievably
Great. When its bad. Its a major
Nightmare.
We love each other very much.
Sometimes we try too or not
hard enough. Life seems to be
Going against us.

Were together, shes laying here by my side
As im writing this...inspite of all the
Crazy honeysuckle we lived through.
Sometimes we create our own trouble.
Other times its just life on lifes terms

We have a history. She was my high school
sweet heart. The young woman on my
Avitra is our daughter, KIMI K
Thats kind of complicated too.

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I can probably write a little novel
About my relationship with Renae.
Its been a journey on the out
And on the inside

Its full of everything.
Lots of love, lot of hate.
Lots of sex. Lots of lies.
Lots of hurt. Lots peace.

We just want to be a regular
Normal couple..but were not.

She's cucasian. Im asian.
Just this in itself puts a little twist
In it....but were both twisted
tk begin with.

Just trying to love one another.

Our sex life it totally amazing.
Love our children.

---

We don't argue about not having enough sex..thats for sure.

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OMG!!!!!
If my significant other were not sitting here beside of me, I would SWEAR that he wrote this what you have said, and I mean down to a freaking tee!!! even the asian/white thing.
my golly!!

 

[Lost Drifter]

I’m the captain of my own ship and I’ll see where it takes me.

Not as much eye-liner though :shy:

 

[Memento Vivere]

Single

Sometimes I love it, you don't have to worry about another person and you're free. Other times its not so fun, like when you see the happy couples holding hands and such.

 

[jjam]

-single
-open minded
-will not rush into anything with anyone

 

[IgnoredOne]

Status: In a relationship.

 

[Arsenic Queen]

Wow, 11 people replied. Really cool. It's interesting to read about everyone's situation and your thoughts about it.


Crow and Princess,
your situations sounds a lot like the one I used to have with one of my exes. It's the "normal" abnormal peaks up and down of very passionate relationships. I don't know if it's possible to bring it to something more balanced.

EDIT for mine:

Happily in a relationship, but painfully neurotic.

Seeing him in 3 days. :3

Purple Days, I am glad that you were worried for nothing. Why do we always worry so much like that? Guys don't do that. For them, if nothing clearly bad happened and they simply don't hear from us, "everything is ok" with the relationship. Why don't we think that way, too?

I’m the captain of my own ship and I’ll see where it takes me.

http://www.proprofs.com/games/puzzle/sliding/upload/354626_1279392935.jpg

Not as much eye-liner though :shy:

LOL

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Yes, we are a very passionate couple.
Our sex life is totally intense. We' re very
Much in love.
The romance is just
As passionate.
Example, a couple of weeks ago we crashed a
party. Lol
Mh fiance is konda a social butterfly.
We goy invited to go inside of the hosts
home. We chit chat for a little while.
As we were leaving there still groups
Of people out side.
My fiance and I just startef dancing in the
Street UNder the stars and moon light.
She whispered in my ears....
BE WITH ME IN THIS MOMENT.
We danced slow dance only to sounds
Of our heart beat. We made out..
Then it got hotter..
My fiance danced aroind me with her
Sexy dance move..its was totally intense.
We passoonatly made out..
We even rolled in the street for a while..
We were in our own world....
However, we had an audiance.
You can here people talking about us..

The women mostly commoned
..Wow they whicj they have that.
They wish there BF can be in the moment
And be as passionate as my fiance was.
Were very much in love

---

The other day we took a blanket out
to a fishing dock were we live. It was a beautiful day.
The sunshine and the waves of the ocean was
A peaceful feeling. We just enjoy each others
Compnys. Then we made out...
No one was around..so we did it.
I have bite marks on me becuase she didn't
Want to scream.lol

I got up this morning and made her breakfast.

The other day she asked me to shave her legs
for her.
She also asked me to paint her nails for her..

Bonding moments..

---

I brush her hair for her from time to time.
Simple stuff that couples do...
ITS not al about sex but our sex life is totally
Intense.We cuddle or spoon all the tine of ourse.
Thats jusf how we sleep together.

 

[WickedCat]

Yes, we are a very passionate couple.
Our sex life is totally intense. We' re very
Much in love.
The romance is just
As passionate.
Example, a couple of weeks ago we crashed a
party. Lol
Mh fiance is konda a social butterfly.
We goy invited to go inside of the hosts
home. We chit chat for a little while.
As we were leaving there still groups
Of people out side.
My fiance and I just startef dancing in the
Street UNder the stars and moon light.
She whispered in my ears....
BE WITH ME IN THIS MOMENT.
We danced slow dance only to sounds
Of our heart beat. We made out..
Then it got hotter..
My fiance danced aroind me with her
Sexy dance move..its was totally intense.
We passoonatly made out..
We even rolled in the street for a while..
We were in our own world....
However, we had an audiance.
You can here people talking about us..

The women mostly commoned
..Wow they whicj they have that.
They wish there BF can be in the moment
And be as passionate as my fiance was.
Were very much in love

---

The other day we took a blanket out
to a fishing dock were we live. It was a beautiful day.
The sunshine and the waves of the ocean was
A peaceful feeling. We just enjoy each others
Compnys. Then we made out...
No one was around..so we did it.
I have bite marks on me becuase she didn't
Want to scream.lol

I got up this morning and made her breakfast.

The other day she asked me to shave her legs
for her.
She also asked me to paint her nails for her..

Bonding moments..

---

I brush her hair for her from time to time.
Simple stuff that couples do...
ITS not al about sex but our sex life is totally
Intense.We cuddle or spoon all the tine of ourse.
Thats jusf how we sleep together.

---

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Wow! You should probably change your name to Not So Lonesome Crow.

 

[Romeo Echo]

Single, always have been and up until now it hasn't been much of a concern. The amount of concern it causes me varies from day to day and mood to mood. Never really had anybody show interest, where I have shown Interest I've ever had luck turn against me or have chosen to make the discussion to cut anything from forming (even though allot of the time I look back and I doubt there would of been anything anyways)

Socially my rise to popularity had been meteoric, going from having only a few close friends, to having a massive friendship group and me overhearing a conversation between two individuals that i was one of the most popular people in college (I disagree with this myself) I have dealt with this rise satisfactorily but still struggle in some senses (I trust very few people still, never really give hugs or other physical contact etc.)

Ironic, how in some senses we can be so surrounded, yet so isolated.

Thats me anyways

 

[Arsenic Queen]

Wow! You should probably change your name to Not So Lonesome Crow.

I've been thinking that since the minute I hit this website.

Ironic, how in some senses we can be so surrounded, yet so isolated.

Emotional loneliness. A super-handsome online friend of mine suffers from that at a very high degree too. He's had several girlfriends and fans, mind you, and when he's in love with a new special woman he nearly glows from happiness; unfortunately he's not very realistic and when real life catches up and his gf of the moment appears any less than a perfect goddess, they eventually break up and he falls to this same emotional loneliness pit of depression again. We've been friends for a few years now, and the number of times I had to comfort him after a bad "defeat" like that, is what I'd call "meteoric". Kinda sad for someone who has it easy to seduce who he wants and easy also to make friends.

 

[freedom]

i'm single right now, but i'm in love with a woman who doesn't love me. she's moving away pretty soon and i'll probably never see her again. i'm very sad right now about it, but i know that some day i'll find true love.

 

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