CenotaphGirl
Under the dirt, that’s my home ⚰️
Truth is I lost my dad to COVID near the beginning, I have also been getting over an incident, so I have been feeling extra vulnerable.
I have felt the need to cling to a married man for emotional support and the issue is... his wife is so amazing to me, she let me stay because me and my sister had a huge fight after my dad passed. I managed to get a new place but they both asked me to stay because I cook for them and all their children have flown the nest...
I still come by but I feel that what I do with her husband is inappropriate and makes me a bad person, however, I am single, I guess I just want someone to take the pain away... I think I put myself in terrible situations to have more reasons to hate myself...
I don't want him in any other way than for emotional support but.. well things always get so tricky, my self-esteem is so low so I don't draw the line, I just let things happen, I haven't done much, but I do things to show interest like I sit on his lap when he's just trying to watch TV... I walk around in pjs I wouldn't wear if his wife was home,I know I am being manipulative, I know I'm wrong.
It started out kind, he would offer me a shoulder to cry on nothing more, I was the one always trying to see how far I could take things, for no other reason than to see if I'm still what men want, if i'm still desirable... more desirable than her? I feel like i'm competing with her in my head for her husbands ear? for his support? I just don't understand myself...
I just wish someone could understand that I'm really not trying to be like this, I read a guys post who had a similar situation on here and I just felt so guilty because it's not right to manipulate people.
Sorry I'm just venting...
I have felt the need to cling to a married man for emotional support and the issue is... his wife is so amazing to me, she let me stay because me and my sister had a huge fight after my dad passed. I managed to get a new place but they both asked me to stay because I cook for them and all their children have flown the nest...
I still come by but I feel that what I do with her husband is inappropriate and makes me a bad person, however, I am single, I guess I just want someone to take the pain away... I think I put myself in terrible situations to have more reasons to hate myself...
I don't want him in any other way than for emotional support but.. well things always get so tricky, my self-esteem is so low so I don't draw the line, I just let things happen, I haven't done much, but I do things to show interest like I sit on his lap when he's just trying to watch TV... I walk around in pjs I wouldn't wear if his wife was home,I know I am being manipulative, I know I'm wrong.
It started out kind, he would offer me a shoulder to cry on nothing more, I was the one always trying to see how far I could take things, for no other reason than to see if I'm still what men want, if i'm still desirable... more desirable than her? I feel like i'm competing with her in my head for her husbands ear? for his support? I just don't understand myself...
I just wish someone could understand that I'm really not trying to be like this, I read a guys post who had a similar situation on here and I just felt so guilty because it's not right to manipulate people.
Sorry I'm just venting...