I sometimes shy away from parties and other gatherings and I think this is because I have a hard time talking to people in groups. It's not that I'm shy or can't open my mouth; my mind is just pulling blanks. You can hear tumbleweeds in there; I can't come up with anything funny to say, or anything at all for that matter.
Is it like this for anyone else? I've heard people who are quiet are usually shy; that the problem isn't the tumbleweeds. But I don't feel shy. Mostly stupid. Maybe it's a question of being serious vs unserious.
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What's the solution? Taking a 'mindfulness' class? Improv?
What do you think?
Is it like this for anyone else? I've heard people who are quiet are usually shy; that the problem isn't the tumbleweeds. But I don't feel shy. Mostly stupid. Maybe it's a question of being serious vs unserious.
:club:
What's the solution? Taking a 'mindfulness' class? Improv?
What do you think?