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hello, first I just wanted to clarify that I'm not really in a rush at all to figure myself out because I don't plan on getting into any relationships for at least a couple years. I guess I'm just a bit curious and was wondering if anyone feels the same way as me, or maybe has an idea of what im talking about.
so for as long as I can remember, I don't want to do it with anyone no matter how close the relationship is, the more I think about myself in those situations I feel uneasy or uncomfortable about it.
I feel like it may have to do with me being trans, because I have a lot of dysphoria about most of my body. It's not hard to imagine why I wouldn't want to do certain things with someone because of the dysphoria, especially if it's already upsetting on it's own. But I still feel attraction to people, and could enjoy touching/kissing and such, but not sex itself if that makes sense.
The thing is, I can't really be sure if any of this would change if I decided to get surgery or not. But to be honest, sometimes I don't know what would make me happy because I am so scared to try anything in the first place.
But idk being trans definitely complicates everything, but does anyone have any input about any of this? again, im not too fixated on it, it's more of something in the back of my head, and was just wondering if anyone else knows what im talking about. thanks : )
so for as long as I can remember, I don't want to do it with anyone no matter how close the relationship is, the more I think about myself in those situations I feel uneasy or uncomfortable about it.
I feel like it may have to do with me being trans, because I have a lot of dysphoria about most of my body. It's not hard to imagine why I wouldn't want to do certain things with someone because of the dysphoria, especially if it's already upsetting on it's own. But I still feel attraction to people, and could enjoy touching/kissing and such, but not sex itself if that makes sense.
The thing is, I can't really be sure if any of this would change if I decided to get surgery or not. But to be honest, sometimes I don't know what would make me happy because I am so scared to try anything in the first place.
But idk being trans definitely complicates everything, but does anyone have any input about any of this? again, im not too fixated on it, it's more of something in the back of my head, and was just wondering if anyone else knows what im talking about. thanks : )