I'm sick of seeing/hearing about honeysuckle like this. Personally I haven't experienced a controlling relationship, and I thank god I haven't. However. Recently I have experienced someone who is attempting to control my life because of his 'feelings' towards me.
Known the guy about 3 weeks, yeah through Facebook. Haven't met face-to-face. Apparently he's 'fallen in love' with me. Now, up until last year, I didn't really believe in the whole, liking someone if you haven't met them, got to know them thing. I understand how the whole thing works now, feelings develop as you get to know someone, blahblah. My argument is, our conversations have been bland, boring, and quite honestly just a **** right drag. You could ask this guy my birthday, or my hair colour, or anything simple, and he wouldn't know fresia all.
Now, I'd say, 70% of my friends are male. Genuinely get on better with guys, due to my sense of humour, and just because I hate the bitchiness that comes with women. I admit it, I can be a *****, I think its actually in our DNA. Anyway, this ******* ballsack is attempting to totally eliminate all contact with other males from my life. Apparently, I shouldn't be texting, or speaking to many guys at once, because that makes me a whore. I explained the whole, most of my friends are guys, and well, since saying that my life has become hell. Ringing me every day, I'd say roughly 7 times a day, asking where I am, who I'm with, what I'm doing. At the slight mention of a male friend, that's it. I'm a slag, slut, and all the insults you can think of.
Quite frankly this guy means jack honeysuckle to me, and I will be changing my phone number pretty soon. But the reason I'm mentioning this is because its ******* annoying. If you are a guy or girl, in a relationship, or even in a kinda similar situation to mine, then put your foot down, and sort this honeysuckle out. I've dealt with this for just over 2 weeks, I give a good ******* pat on the back to anyone who has coping in relationships for years of this honeysuckle. At the end of the day, I have enough self respect to say no, I am a strong, independent women, independent person, and I am not going to let someone treat me this way. I have done nothing wrong, therefore I shouldn't feel like every move I make is being watched. Not one person on this earth will ever control who I see, who I'm speaking to, where I go, what I do, or any of the choices I make in life.
As for the people who are doing this honeysuckle, grow some ******* balls and stop ruining that person's life, and learn to show respect towards other's because you can never keep someone who hates you, they will always find a way out.
rant over.
Known the guy about 3 weeks, yeah through Facebook. Haven't met face-to-face. Apparently he's 'fallen in love' with me. Now, up until last year, I didn't really believe in the whole, liking someone if you haven't met them, got to know them thing. I understand how the whole thing works now, feelings develop as you get to know someone, blahblah. My argument is, our conversations have been bland, boring, and quite honestly just a **** right drag. You could ask this guy my birthday, or my hair colour, or anything simple, and he wouldn't know fresia all.
Now, I'd say, 70% of my friends are male. Genuinely get on better with guys, due to my sense of humour, and just because I hate the bitchiness that comes with women. I admit it, I can be a *****, I think its actually in our DNA. Anyway, this ******* ballsack is attempting to totally eliminate all contact with other males from my life. Apparently, I shouldn't be texting, or speaking to many guys at once, because that makes me a whore. I explained the whole, most of my friends are guys, and well, since saying that my life has become hell. Ringing me every day, I'd say roughly 7 times a day, asking where I am, who I'm with, what I'm doing. At the slight mention of a male friend, that's it. I'm a slag, slut, and all the insults you can think of.
Quite frankly this guy means jack honeysuckle to me, and I will be changing my phone number pretty soon. But the reason I'm mentioning this is because its ******* annoying. If you are a guy or girl, in a relationship, or even in a kinda similar situation to mine, then put your foot down, and sort this honeysuckle out. I've dealt with this for just over 2 weeks, I give a good ******* pat on the back to anyone who has coping in relationships for years of this honeysuckle. At the end of the day, I have enough self respect to say no, I am a strong, independent women, independent person, and I am not going to let someone treat me this way. I have done nothing wrong, therefore I shouldn't feel like every move I make is being watched. Not one person on this earth will ever control who I see, who I'm speaking to, where I go, what I do, or any of the choices I make in life.
As for the people who are doing this honeysuckle, grow some ******* balls and stop ruining that person's life, and learn to show respect towards other's because you can never keep someone who hates you, they will always find a way out.
rant over.