man of one
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So here is the deal, 2 months ago I was on the facebook newsfeed and saw a post one of my friends made. On this post one of the responses was from a girl I instantly felt an incredible physical attraction to..It had been a long while since I felt the love at first sight feeling..I just wanted to add her and meet her right then and there, but I didn't know if that friend had a thing with her, so I decided to ask him if he liked anyone and he answered he liked various girls..This answer gave me an idea that this girl, even if she was one of the various girls he liked she was just one of the bunch to him..So I told him I wanted to add her and he quickly started saying that she was his favorite blah blah...I proceeded to ask if they had something serious. He did not respond..I said to hell with it and added her with a small message telling her I wanted to get to know her..The message appeared as seen a couple of minutes later, but she didn't accept my friend request after reading it..I was miserable the whole day, mad, depressed that the girl I wanted to meet so bad didn't give me a chance..Next day I woke up and lo and behold she had accepted! I was so happy that now I would be able to get to know her..After this the friend acted a bit hostile saying they were going out and liked each other, which was bs because she constantly said she had not found the man she wanted..He also had the audacity to call me desperate! I'm not the guy that likes various girls acting like a playa..We ended in ok terms back then, but the tension between us is still there.
Anyways I started trying to talk to her, but she never responded ..Sometimes she saw the messages other times she didn't..I was being real friendly and polite, but nothing came from it..One day I liked one of her post to show her I was there and liked what she said..Next day I go to her profile for a second and BOOM! she unfriended me..I was destroyed..so much so I closed facebook for all the month of may..Just pondering why she had accepted me and then unfriended me without even getting to know me..Obviously the first thing that came to mind was that she just didn't want to get to know me, but why add me then? I never said anything out of line that would cause her to unfriend me and I made it clear in the message I sent her in the friend request I wanted to get to talk with her and get to know her if she had not been up for it she should had deny me right then and there, don't add me and get my hopes up only to destroy me later on..Another scenario is that I know that friend of mine sees her in person and I started to think that maybe he had something to do with it, maybe telling her bad things about me or even grabbing her phone and blocking/unfriending me while she was distracted and if this is the case, she would think it was me who unfriended her..
I returned to FB this month and every time I see that friend of mine, my blood boils..knowing he MAY had played a role in her unfriending me, makes me want to punch him to a bloody pulp..I really like that girl she seems great inside and out, but it's like there is a wall between us and it may be him..FB was the only means of contacting her I had..I started saying maybe destiny will bring us together in person so she can see what a good guy I am and not just a FB profile and what my friend says I am, but chances of that are slim without planning to meet up..
I cannot get over her, I have tried, but I can't..I want to send her a friend request again, but i'm afraid that it will seem desperate if it really was her the one that unfriended me and my friend had nothing to do with it..but I don't want to lose all contact..I really want to meet her..she has sisters I also thought about adding them to see if they are more open and me being able to tell them I want to meet their sister, but don't know really..
A small example my grandpa was madly in love with my grandma, but she didn't give him a chance for whatever reason, still he saw something special in her and didn't give up till she opened up and they started dating, got married had my dad and i'm here alive today thanks to my grandpa knowing my grandma was unique and he could not pass that up..I'm in the same boat this girl is special I can feel it!..
Need advice and don't tell me get over her cause I can't!..Give me advice in a way I can meet her or get on her good side, impress her etc., Please help! girls like this come once in a million years...THANKS GUYS!
Anyways I started trying to talk to her, but she never responded ..Sometimes she saw the messages other times she didn't..I was being real friendly and polite, but nothing came from it..One day I liked one of her post to show her I was there and liked what she said..Next day I go to her profile for a second and BOOM! she unfriended me..I was destroyed..so much so I closed facebook for all the month of may..Just pondering why she had accepted me and then unfriended me without even getting to know me..Obviously the first thing that came to mind was that she just didn't want to get to know me, but why add me then? I never said anything out of line that would cause her to unfriend me and I made it clear in the message I sent her in the friend request I wanted to get to talk with her and get to know her if she had not been up for it she should had deny me right then and there, don't add me and get my hopes up only to destroy me later on..Another scenario is that I know that friend of mine sees her in person and I started to think that maybe he had something to do with it, maybe telling her bad things about me or even grabbing her phone and blocking/unfriending me while she was distracted and if this is the case, she would think it was me who unfriended her..
I returned to FB this month and every time I see that friend of mine, my blood boils..knowing he MAY had played a role in her unfriending me, makes me want to punch him to a bloody pulp..I really like that girl she seems great inside and out, but it's like there is a wall between us and it may be him..FB was the only means of contacting her I had..I started saying maybe destiny will bring us together in person so she can see what a good guy I am and not just a FB profile and what my friend says I am, but chances of that are slim without planning to meet up..
I cannot get over her, I have tried, but I can't..I want to send her a friend request again, but i'm afraid that it will seem desperate if it really was her the one that unfriended me and my friend had nothing to do with it..but I don't want to lose all contact..I really want to meet her..she has sisters I also thought about adding them to see if they are more open and me being able to tell them I want to meet their sister, but don't know really..
A small example my grandpa was madly in love with my grandma, but she didn't give him a chance for whatever reason, still he saw something special in her and didn't give up till she opened up and they started dating, got married had my dad and i'm here alive today thanks to my grandpa knowing my grandma was unique and he could not pass that up..I'm in the same boat this girl is special I can feel it!..
Need advice and don't tell me get over her cause I can't!..Give me advice in a way I can meet her or get on her good side, impress her etc., Please help! girls like this come once in a million years...THANKS GUYS!