Aedammair said:
Okay all that is fair enough to all of these replies. How can you ask a girl out out. I have asked out on dates but never to date. and I have always been shot down. What do you guys do?
hahhahaha...If you're anything like me, some girls will just come
to me or are attracted to guys like me....
I'm a musician, my hair was long, I wore rags on purpose becuase
it was slick hip and cool back when..bascailly I played in a metal band.
It wasn't like I was a chick magnet on anything...I only had a couple
of GF in HS but I knew others wanted to go out with me
When I was single in my late 20's I had to started dating.
Asking a girl out?..you basically just go and ask her.
There's no magic trick to it...you'll either do it or you won't.
She'll be either interested or she's not.
Try not to let her beautiful apprerance get to ya.
Keep it simple or keep the converstaion casual.
The more you talk to women the easier it'll get...they're just people.
The more relax you'll become. That's why it helps to have females
as friends also becuase you're comfortiable talking to the opposite
sex already...
it just takes practice like anything else...
Maybe you might get luckie the first time...maybe you won't.
Bottom line is you gotta try...even if a woman do ask you out...
you still have to try and be relax about it.
And keep on trying in more ways than you think.lol
Just be yourself and don't trip.
I've been shot down many times in more ways than one and not just pretaining to women.
You just gatta pick yourself back up somehow...whatever it takes. Try to keep and stay positive.
Well...when I figured out that I was my wife's BF.
It wasn't like i had to ask her if i was her bf...she was kissing me already.lol