angel_in_view
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I wanted to pose this question bc I've bent my hubby's ear about it enough!
I just wondered if anyone else on here is like me? If I'm not doing things w/my hubby, I'm usually by myself. I want to be clear...I enjoy doing things w/my hubby and we always have fun. Also, I enjoy having time to myself sometimes...but as I've told him many times, sometimes you just want to have "girl time." I have a couple of close friends, but they live 1 & 1/2 hrs away. So, I don't get to seem them often. Sometimes when I'm out running errands, I see groups of females hanging out shopping, eating lunch, etc and it makes me kind of sad. It makes me wish I had a g'friend to do things like that with. It makes me wonder, "ok what's wrong w/me that I can't have friendships like that? What do they do that's so different? I'm a good, loyal friend..why am I always by myself if i'm not w/my hubby doing things?" A cousin of mine is ALWAYS by herself. She said she's been doing things by herself 4 so long that she wouldn't know how to act if someone(other than family) would want to do something w/her. She has trust issues bc a childhood friend betrayed her about 10 yrs ago and that made her totally shut down. However, I am not like that. I just get tired of being by myself all the time. It just feels so pathetic.
I just wondered if anyone else on here is like me? If I'm not doing things w/my hubby, I'm usually by myself. I want to be clear...I enjoy doing things w/my hubby and we always have fun. Also, I enjoy having time to myself sometimes...but as I've told him many times, sometimes you just want to have "girl time." I have a couple of close friends, but they live 1 & 1/2 hrs away. So, I don't get to seem them often. Sometimes when I'm out running errands, I see groups of females hanging out shopping, eating lunch, etc and it makes me kind of sad. It makes me wish I had a g'friend to do things like that with. It makes me wonder, "ok what's wrong w/me that I can't have friendships like that? What do they do that's so different? I'm a good, loyal friend..why am I always by myself if i'm not w/my hubby doing things?" A cousin of mine is ALWAYS by herself. She said she's been doing things by herself 4 so long that she wouldn't know how to act if someone(other than family) would want to do something w/her. She has trust issues bc a childhood friend betrayed her about 10 yrs ago and that made her totally shut down. However, I am not like that. I just get tired of being by myself all the time. It just feels so pathetic.