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Do you consider people you speak to online as being friends?
If I like someone enough, I obviously do, but some people I've spoken to online claim it's impossible for them to consider a contact they talk to online as being a friend. Some people think it's impossible to "know" someone online, but I believe you can tell what someone's like by speaking to them online, especially if you speak to them on a near-daily basis. Sure, there are frauds, but it's usually quite easy to tell if someone's a bullshitter.
I was inspired to create this thread after someone I was speaking to online told me they'd not care if I'd kill myself, or if I'd die any other way. They told me this because they don't know me, and said "I only care what happens to my family, or people I know IRL". It pissed me off. Why would they not care about what happened to me or anyone else simply because they don't know me/them in real life? She doesn't even care when she hears about people dying in disasters simply because she doesn't know the people. This is bullshit, and it's no surprise as to why she joked about the earthquake in Haiti after she heard about it.
You may want to tell me "Internet = serious business", but that phrase can only apply to people who, for example, slit their wrist after a random troll says something to piss them off - it can't apply to someone who's pissed off about what someone they've spoken to in a personal manner for a lengthy period of time said to them.
Anyway, I blocked and deleted this person because I didn't want to "entertain" her or whatever - I wanted to have worthwhile, meaningful conversations. I told her to change her mindset, grow up, and learn to feel compassion for people, even strangers. People like this are depressing.
People are people. Just because you don't know someone in the physical sense doesn't make them less human, and is no excuse to lack feelings for them.
If I like someone enough, I obviously do, but some people I've spoken to online claim it's impossible for them to consider a contact they talk to online as being a friend. Some people think it's impossible to "know" someone online, but I believe you can tell what someone's like by speaking to them online, especially if you speak to them on a near-daily basis. Sure, there are frauds, but it's usually quite easy to tell if someone's a bullshitter.
I was inspired to create this thread after someone I was speaking to online told me they'd not care if I'd kill myself, or if I'd die any other way. They told me this because they don't know me, and said "I only care what happens to my family, or people I know IRL". It pissed me off. Why would they not care about what happened to me or anyone else simply because they don't know me/them in real life? She doesn't even care when she hears about people dying in disasters simply because she doesn't know the people. This is bullshit, and it's no surprise as to why she joked about the earthquake in Haiti after she heard about it.
You may want to tell me "Internet = serious business", but that phrase can only apply to people who, for example, slit their wrist after a random troll says something to piss them off - it can't apply to someone who's pissed off about what someone they've spoken to in a personal manner for a lengthy period of time said to them.
Anyway, I blocked and deleted this person because I didn't want to "entertain" her or whatever - I wanted to have worthwhile, meaningful conversations. I told her to change her mindset, grow up, and learn to feel compassion for people, even strangers. People like this are depressing.
People are people. Just because you don't know someone in the physical sense doesn't make them less human, and is no excuse to lack feelings for them.