I was just yesterday having a conversation about extreme metal with an acquaintance...the usual honeysuckle when one of the two guys like "soft" music and consider extreme metal to be "random noise" and the other tries to explain that his friend simply doesnt "get" heavy music.
I ended up arguing him that extreme metal is a genre for strong minds, people who are able to deal with the darker aspects of life, which are the themes of extreme metal bands.
No turning this point to the general posts you make here on ALL, do you think you are generally able to accept such dreary things as solitude, loneliness, with a clear, sane mind? Do you think you tend to 'run' from scary thoughts and ideas with the help of self-indulgence? Do you find comfort in the idea of being "the only one in the world" who faces ingratitude, lack of comprehension, solitude, and so on?
Or are you strong enough to accept life as it is, when solitude is a universal rule and friendship, companionship and even truthfulness are rare gems very very hard to find in a single lifetime??