cool_breeze
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This is basically what makes me feel loneliest of all. Where I live if you talk to most people they've had 1 main relationship. But they've also had sex with 5, 10, 15, 20, 25, 30+ people. Do you guys think this is normal? It seems strange. It makes me feel lonely. People seem to treat sex like nothing these days. They're horny so they have sex with pretty much anyone that they've talked to for a bit and that's it. I always wanted to have sex with a low number of girls and just love them completely. That doesn't seem to be possible though with how things are and the environment here. I have even started to join in with the "hooking up" here, though not anywhere near to the level of some people. It seems if you don't do that you get nothing at all here basically.
That's pretty much what makes me lonely. When sex and love don't align. I've had sex with girls I don't love. And conversely there are 1 or 2 girls I love that I want to have sex with so bad but they're so prude it doesn't seem possible. Everyone here seems to be a prude or a slut. The sexuality in this area seems kind of primitive. What happened to healthy romantic relationships, and sex is just a byproduct of that? Also, how can I take a girl seriously if she's having sex with literally dozens of guys. That seems like way too much.
I hate this issue. There's some sex to be had here. Even some love maybe. But both together... goddamn. Killin me...
That's pretty much what makes me lonely. When sex and love don't align. I've had sex with girls I don't love. And conversely there are 1 or 2 girls I love that I want to have sex with so bad but they're so prude it doesn't seem possible. Everyone here seems to be a prude or a slut. The sexuality in this area seems kind of primitive. What happened to healthy romantic relationships, and sex is just a byproduct of that? Also, how can I take a girl seriously if she's having sex with literally dozens of guys. That seems like way too much.
I hate this issue. There's some sex to be had here. Even some love maybe. But both together... goddamn. Killin me...