I'm very attracted by the idea of this site. However, it does scare me a little. I've suffered from depression and loneliness for most of my life, since I was 12, and I'm almost 25 now. However, the usual answer to that kind of issue is just "buck up, suck it in, it'll get better".
That might work for some people, but it hasn't worked for me. I have a multitude of passive, unhealthy, or just plain useless coping methods that I won't go into here. Basically, how do I break out of this loneliness? I am considered by most people to be an intelligent man, and normally I solve my problems by simply thinking them through.
This, I can't.
It's been 12 years since I felt I belonged to anything, or anyone.
It's been ten years since I was happy for longer than a week or two at a time.
Well, that's just me. Again, maybe I'm just complaining and need to be told to buck up, I really don't have any answers. I'd just like any ideas that anyone has.
That might work for some people, but it hasn't worked for me. I have a multitude of passive, unhealthy, or just plain useless coping methods that I won't go into here. Basically, how do I break out of this loneliness? I am considered by most people to be an intelligent man, and normally I solve my problems by simply thinking them through.
This, I can't.
It's been 12 years since I felt I belonged to anything, or anyone.
It's been ten years since I was happy for longer than a week or two at a time.
Well, that's just me. Again, maybe I'm just complaining and need to be told to buck up, I really don't have any answers. I'd just like any ideas that anyone has.