nguyenmtony
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Well I had a girlfriend for 7 and a half years but it ended about a month and a half ago :/ (i was still in love when she cheated) . Now i find myself stuck in situations when i go out that all i can think about is her and everything we did together. I am now 27 and don't know how to open up without bringing her up because everything i've done, i've done with her.
I dont have any close friends any longer because I was committed to the relationship and her ofcourse. I get invited to go out sometime and go but when im out i don't really have anything to talk about. my life is just filled with nothingness anymore because all i did was work and look foward to seeing my girlfriend. I'm not a bad looking guy either but I find it hard to go dance(really never went clubbing much while i was with her for the fact that her friends would hit on me). my social interaction now is mediocre at best and i've really never been the outgoing type of person and don't know how to break out of it to be that outgoing person.
This relationship i was in drained the youth out of me basically because of her jealousy issues and ultimately cheating on me just hurt my pride and ego as a man. I feel broken and worthless now and don't know how to pull out of this.
I dont have any close friends any longer because I was committed to the relationship and her ofcourse. I get invited to go out sometime and go but when im out i don't really have anything to talk about. my life is just filled with nothingness anymore because all i did was work and look foward to seeing my girlfriend. I'm not a bad looking guy either but I find it hard to go dance(really never went clubbing much while i was with her for the fact that her friends would hit on me). my social interaction now is mediocre at best and i've really never been the outgoing type of person and don't know how to break out of it to be that outgoing person.
This relationship i was in drained the youth out of me basically because of her jealousy issues and ultimately cheating on me just hurt my pride and ego as a man. I feel broken and worthless now and don't know how to pull out of this.