Tramp
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Thought I'd do something "nice" for my wife, who I've known for three years now. With our infant, it's hard to have a lot of time together or do anything fun together these days, so thought this would be a nice deviation from that.
My wife and I are in an interracial marriage. I wrote out the lyrics of a relatively famous song in my native tongue (not my lyrics, but the handwriting was mine - one up for originality?) and gave it to her to get it translated however she can, as the song portrays how I feel about her. I was thinking that if a woman did the same for me, I would be very touched and would try my best to figure out the meaning. I thought that my woman would feel the same and this would be a fun little game for us to play. Her prize for being able to successfully translate the song would be a small piece of art made by our infant son.
I thought it wouldn't be too hard, all she would have to do is scan the piece of paper and put it up on a forum or something, where someone could translate it for her, or even ask one of my friends who speaks the same language.
I didn't realize she would take offense to it. Her reaction kind of broke my heart, as she got pissed and threw something across the floor (the diaper she had just changed, lol). She said it was offensive as she didn't know the language. I guess I didn't think of it that way. I completely embarrassed myself and now realize this wasn't a good idea at all. It feels like I ruined Easter.
My wife and I are in an interracial marriage. I wrote out the lyrics of a relatively famous song in my native tongue (not my lyrics, but the handwriting was mine - one up for originality?) and gave it to her to get it translated however she can, as the song portrays how I feel about her. I was thinking that if a woman did the same for me, I would be very touched and would try my best to figure out the meaning. I thought that my woman would feel the same and this would be a fun little game for us to play. Her prize for being able to successfully translate the song would be a small piece of art made by our infant son.
I thought it wouldn't be too hard, all she would have to do is scan the piece of paper and put it up on a forum or something, where someone could translate it for her, or even ask one of my friends who speaks the same language.
I didn't realize she would take offense to it. Her reaction kind of broke my heart, as she got pissed and threw something across the floor (the diaper she had just changed, lol). She said it was offensive as she didn't know the language. I guess I didn't think of it that way. I completely embarrassed myself and now realize this wasn't a good idea at all. It feels like I ruined Easter.