I used too but not anymore...
I actaully got this tip from my ministor.lmao
Dating tips or how to ask a girl out or get a hawt babe.... years ago when I was single back when.
She told me to look a girl in her eyes as you're talking to her and you'll overcome the fears of her beauty.
It just takes practice.
At first I had to do those 40 days of stairing myself in the mirrow and telling myself i love
myself. Looking into my own eyes. The eyes of a stranger...lol
It wasn't natural for me at first...so somtimes i just look at the person's forehead or eye lashes
When talking to someone or intruducing myself...Bam, eyes contact for me now.
It's like I'm looking into a person's soul and they're looking into mine...
Nothing to hide or fear. When working with my sponsor...major, major eyes contact.
This also gives me practice...becuase my sponsor knows everything about me...
All of my flaws, lies, secrets, fears, hopes, dreams.....everything. I laid my cards out on the table
He too also tells me all of his fears and secrets. Bascailly he's becoming my best friend
We're build a freindship of truth, trust, love, respect for one another.
We can talk about anything...at a deeper level..not just surface stuff.
Lmao..I always piont two fingers to my eyes and piont them back to my sponsor's eyes
as a joke or a reminder then a say " YOU and I. We...We're going to communicate..face to face ..eye to eye
heart to heart , soul to soul.
By doing this...I'm able to transfer it to another person...such as a girl freind.
It's not really a stair down...It's just eyes contact...acknowleging that we're presence in this moment together.
You are here with me...not in your head thinkin about Save Willy that migh be on HBO later...lmao
Or thinking about your fears or messed up out of your god **** mind...lmao