liposuctionlol said:
well no one knows that i am, once someone noticed a cut on me but i just lied so no one knows.Bluey said:liposuctionlol, I do hope your not cutting your self to badly or to often. They can get infected you know. If you must do it then please make Sher the knife and your self are clean be for you do this. It well make the risk of infection a lot less.
Dose anyone close to you know about you doing this? I do know that it can be addicting cos of the feeling of the realise of pain you feel.
Dude, You are welcome to PM me if you would like to talk about why you are doing this in privet. I seen in another thread you say that you don't write to good. I think you write better then me and I understand perfectly what you say which is the important bit
Here is something that might work. Instead of cutting your self every time you feel the need, you seat down and write/type what you are feeling. Cry, Punch something (soft) anything to get it out but you have to try and move on from the cutting mate.
You stay strong dude and be reshard there is a lot of help out there for this. You just have to make the right ppl in your life aware of how your feeling. That is the hardest thing i would say.
Naleena said:
But you need to fined another out let for the pain your feeling. I know you say your not feeling anything. But you are, its just your brain and the cutting that's preventing you from feeling the feelings that well hurt you but still need to come out. Do you understand what I mean there? Just you take care. And learn to go easy on yourself. Sometimes taking life to seriously or what other ppl say to seriously is not a good idea. just be relaxed and enjoy what ever moment you may be in and things well improve.
The legal kind, that is. These days, doctors have a plethora of good medicines to help people. Granted, the medicines won't take your problems away, but most of them can at least help you deal with them a little easier. As for the cutting, well, I guess that we can sometimes feel like we're about to explode with anger, sadness, frustration, despair or whatever, and maybe the cutting is the only way you feel some kind of release. Or, maybe it's that your body is one of the few things in your life that you have complete control over, so you feel like you can do as you wish. As far as relationships, I don't know you and won't even attempt to give you well meaning relationship advice. I will tell you this, however. I spent the first ten or twelve years of my adult life in one crappy relationship after another. Everytime I exited a bad one, I left the relationship with a more clear picture of what I did or did not want in a relationship. Very few of us EVER get relationships right the first time. Heck, usually not even the second, third, fourth, etc. times. Figuring out what will and won't work for you, is a work in progress. Keep working at it. Look back at the good times, just as much as you look at the bad times. Learn from every mistake you think you make. Each mistake we make is a learning opportunity! And another thing...you're not a brick, you're a person. Bricks can be replaced, people can't. And guess what? If, at this time in your life, you don't think relationships work for you, then take a break from them. Too many times, we let who we are with (or without), define who we are. Our value is not in who we are with, but in who we are or can be or want to be. The only person that you can ever really change to suit you is.....well, you. Keep your chin up, dude. There seems to be quite a few people here, on this forum, who have a genuine concern for you. That's rare, don't take it lightly. liposuctionlol said:
That's good to know you are finding other things instead of the cutting 
