beans
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Have you ever had people in your life who didn't mind hanging out with you but you drove them away or rather, you weren't interested in the friendship? I welcome most people into my lives but there was one particular friend who I felt uncomfortable with even though she isn't bad or anything like that.
No offence to anyone religious here, but this friend of mine, she suddenly became Christian in the middle of our friendship. And that's fine with me, I have nothing against that. Now, BEFORE she became Christian, she used to tell me everything that happens to her, good or bad, negative or positive. I guess I enjoyed that honesty and unfiltered conversations and things that we shared.
After becoming a Christian, she's far more careful with what she tells me to the point she didn't even tell me she quit her job or got a new job, etc when before we always used to discuss everything. It's almost as if she just talks about what's right or what's perfect. She'll also want to know what's going in my life but will speak none about hers.
Also, she instantaneously became a Jesus freak. She would tell me about her dreams of becoming a nun and she told me it was almost as if its an obsession. Yep, she said it herself. She also tells me what god said to her, what he told her, and that when her computer went bonkers, it was the best thing that happened and it must be god's doing, because during that time, all she did was spend time with him, etc etc.
I just feel like we didn't have much to talk about anymore, since I know she kind of 'turned over a new leaf' and she knows that I don't really enjoy listening to all the spiritual stuff and she does try to talk about other things, but it's so weird, because you can just feel she's itching to talk about it.
So what was your reason for moving away from a person that was your friend?
No offence to anyone religious here, but this friend of mine, she suddenly became Christian in the middle of our friendship. And that's fine with me, I have nothing against that. Now, BEFORE she became Christian, she used to tell me everything that happens to her, good or bad, negative or positive. I guess I enjoyed that honesty and unfiltered conversations and things that we shared.
After becoming a Christian, she's far more careful with what she tells me to the point she didn't even tell me she quit her job or got a new job, etc when before we always used to discuss everything. It's almost as if she just talks about what's right or what's perfect. She'll also want to know what's going in my life but will speak none about hers.
Also, she instantaneously became a Jesus freak. She would tell me about her dreams of becoming a nun and she told me it was almost as if its an obsession. Yep, she said it herself. She also tells me what god said to her, what he told her, and that when her computer went bonkers, it was the best thing that happened and it must be god's doing, because during that time, all she did was spend time with him, etc etc.
I just feel like we didn't have much to talk about anymore, since I know she kind of 'turned over a new leaf' and she knows that I don't really enjoy listening to all the spiritual stuff and she does try to talk about other things, but it's so weird, because you can just feel she's itching to talk about it.
So what was your reason for moving away from a person that was your friend?